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    My GF is jealous of my Wife...what do I do?

    Thanks for the response, BlackUnicorn. I'm not sure if she would want to or not, but we will see. And yes, "If I knew then: fits in this situation. I'm fairly new to poly, so I expect I'll make my share of common mistakes. Thanks for the response, NYCindie. I'm not sure if I agree with the...
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    My GF is jealous of my Wife...what do I do?

    Ok…warning, this will be long. Also, since I haven’t posted in a while, here is an update to my situation, before I ask for your opinion on my current situation. I have a live-in GF, Sue. She never knew about polyamory until we met, so when I told her that Kat would know everything that...
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    Trying to correct my colossal screw-up

    Stonebreaker... Cheating...not cool! Regardless of what happened in the past about the "how" or "why" you got married, your wife of 25 years was (and still is) hurt by your deception...that's not cool at all dude! Now, off of my soapbox. Fast forward to today...from what I have read, it...
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    Half-Open Relationship

    Got it. BoringGuy, please accept my apology. After I reread the post, I realize that "OP" meant original poster, not me. For my misunderstanding, I apologize. kkxvlv, thanks for politely suggesting I pull my head out of my ass. I needed it! And you are right about what I was trying to say.
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    Half-Open Relationship

    BoringGuy, my apologies. I missed the vote where you won the "Speaker for all of the Poly Community" chair. :) Seriously, this thread is not about me. He asked questions of people in a poly relationship. Since (the last time I checked) I'm in one, I answered his questions the way I felt. I'm...
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    Half-Open Relationship

    Oh, I forgot to answer some of your questions. No, I don't think you are a chauvinistic, selfish, controlling jerk. No, it's not required to be in a poly relationship. As for your last question about if you are cut out for this, that can only be answered by you. Again, good luck.
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    Half-Open Relationship

    It's call a one-penis policy. So yes, it is a type of poly relationship. My wife (bisexual), my girlfriend (straight) and I have this type of relationship. They both know how I feel and it works for us. I tried to get over (what some would call jealousy) my issues about having another man in...
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    Poly Isn't For Me/Tired of Sharing My Wife

    WOW...someone said what I felt when I joined this forum...BaggagePatrol, this is exactly why I stopped posting and starting lurking...hoping to see someone else going through a similar situation (as mine) and hoping to see some positive feedback (advice)...until now, it wasn't working... Don't...
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    Need Advice On Wifey's Relationship

    Heart Broken...but She don't care So...I talked to PK and her and Terry still have not talked...she told me about the night at the bar and no relationship talked happen. PK also told me that she (PK) has decided to not to push for the relationship. She didn't tell me but I could tell her...
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    Need Advice On Wifey's Relationship

    Yeah...I get those jabs from PK from time to time...mostly because I am open and I assume that everyone else is as well...so, when her friends are around I ask a lot of personal questions...some PK thinks are inappropriate...she says that it's none of my business. Glad to see I'm now the only...
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    Need Advice On Wifey's Relationship

    Thanks for responding...PK and I have great communication in our marriage...but at times, when she tells me things (about different subjects), I tried to solve her issues...don't want to come cross that way about this subject. Also, like you, I'm a very curious person as well as an open...
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    Need Advice On Wifey's Relationship

    PK was the one that told me that Terry was there...she started telling me but we got interrupted...think I'll try to readdress the issue tonight. Thansk again for the advice
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    Need Advice On Wifey's Relationship

    Let's have a Drink Update...PK and Terry ended up at the same bar (unintentionally) and had a drink...that's all I know as of now. I am curious as to if they had a discussion about their relationship...my fear is that if I ask, PK may think I'm trying to ask to see how can I help...i.e. give...
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    Need Advice On Wifey's Relationship

    No...except that one time for my Birthday...Yes, we did talk when she ask how it would work, I explained that their relationship between Wifey (hereafter refered to as PK [LOL]) and Terry would be just that...theirs and that it was not expected that I be involved at all...I did mention that if...
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    Need Advice On Wifey's Relationship

    So….my Wife (yes, Wife now) has had her first girl experience and she loved it! Short version, it was my birthday and it was the BEST BIRTHDAY EVER!!! We all got drunk and it kinda just happened… Now, Wifey and (I’ll call her Terry) have talked about starting a relationship…which I think is...
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    Guys who shave... down there

    Okay, I shave my head, face (except above the mouth), and my (bluntness) dick/balls/ass. I do it all myself. For my head and face I have always used a razor. I was using a razor on my dick and balls until I nicked myself and had an uncontrollable bleeding session under my little left babymaker...
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    NEWGUY's BLOG Thoughts....about all things....

    PK...The Swinger? MY THOUGHTS 8 day and a wake-up!!! Still excited about seeing PK!!!! We had a 'different' conversation last night, you know that say you can't teach an old dog new tricks...Wrong!! I learned something new last night...but it wasn't a trick...well I guess it was in its own...
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    Text Message: "I'm Poly..." WTF?!?!?!

    Not the case at all. PK really wanted me to experience poly. She thought that all people were poly and just didn't realize it (at least that's how she explained it to me). So her goal was to let me see if poly was for me. If so, she could tell me about her feeling; if not, she wouldn't tell me...
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    NEWGUY's BLOG Thoughts....about all things....

    It was a joke Hey, I forgot to say this statement was a joke only based on another post...please read as such.... Thanks in Advance, NG
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    NEWGUY's BLOG Thoughts....about all things....

    10 Days and a Wake Up...Am I Poly? MY THOUGHTS 10 days and a wake up before I see MY (possesive) PK!!!! PK sent me my clearance letter today...I'm allowed to "come in the country"...It still schocks me that I have to get permission to enter another country from my country...and I'm not...
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