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Hi GalaGirl, Thanks for replying again. I'll try to address your questions in order. 1) I don't think I fear never finding love again when I *think* about it - I know that's not realistic. However, it only feels sensible to presume this might be a feeling that affects my decision-making in...

Hi candiedlove, Maybe I should reframe that part then - because I understand and agree with what you say and I am certainly not viewing my partner's polyamoury as something designed to benefit me! I posted what I did because lots of the advice about dealing with the difficulties of poly seems...

Hi GalaGirl, thanks for your reply. You make a fair point about respecting myself and my feelings - I guess that I know that having these feelings is an understandable and natural thing, but I know that a lot of the basis for them is neither logical nor productive, and it is sometimes hard not...

First of all, hi everybody! I've been a bit of a lurker, as I tend to be on occasion, and this is my first thread. I wondered if I could get other people's opinions or thoughts on a situation I am in. Firstly, some background. I have been in my current relationship for 4-5 years. It started...