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That does make a lot of sense, her gf is probably her primary BUT her gf's hubby gets out soon and her gf will run back to her hubby, sigh BUT my gf is currently much more comfortable with perhaps the image of me being her sole sexual relationship and its been really hard to build up much of a...

Wow, just spent an hour and a half on the phone arguing with my gf and her gf about reading up more and trying to solve the jealousy created in me when they have sex while I am in the other room! Even this doesn't happen in the poly kingdom does it, anyone really have sex with a secondary while...

Thanks for being honest, very good info, I agree that poly probably and never will be good for me but I realize my gf is poly atm so I just have to deal with it.

So I have a girl friend who has a girl friend and that make me jealous but the thought of even seeing my girl friend holding another mans hand makes me even more jealous, so my question to you who consider yourselves successfully poly is do you really have what you'd consider sever jealousy...

I wouldn't say I am being abused at all, I've got a lot of my own faults too, with no offence meant to anyone I feel I am about done with this thread but I am going to start a new one about jealousy.

She's already on Prozac, I just think that's her personality to raise her voice a lot, she's usually a lot better when she's drunk and or stoned, usually every night by 8:PM

No I think you are right, she has rage issues, guess I'll just tough it out and try to be happy.

LOL Kevin, well my gf and her gf came over today so I tried being friendly with her gf like she wants but then she got mad that I was talking to her too much, so then I started talking to her about work and then she got mad, if you or any other guys on here have more than one girl friend I...

Sorry I just started today, I think I should refrain from trying to give out any advice, just man-to-man talk I get from male co-workers all the time.

Yes she is poly and the issue is that we were very fine with her being poly until it became painfully clear to me that I may never be in bed with her and her female lover again so now I would like to find a secondary to spend sometime with while she with her other lover are together.

If you'd like to hear about my poly experience and use it as an idea for writing please feel free to IM me about it...its really really good and complex!

Would you mind sharing what you like to write about?

Welcome! Feel free to IM me if you'd like about anything, have you been to the site morethantwo.com yet?

Have any of you had to do this and how did you do it? Also if you haven't had to do but have really good advice please reply.

People say thing and do another a lot including us, part of being poly is being open and communicating.

OK, so I've been a mono in a poly for a while now and am ready to tell my girl friend that I would like to also become poly and I'm not sure how to break the news to her, any advice would be appreciated.

Sounds like this is very hard for all three of you so maybe look at the fact that he had sex with E after he said NO MORE SEX as him being very confused and changing his mind rather to him lying to you, ploy relationship are extremely difficult for me at least so far so please at least try doing...

This is a really good site to help you understand poly: http://www.morethantwo.com/ All three of you need to understand that unicorns do NOT exist! Look it up on line at the Urban dictionary site as well as the term Metamour, it sounds like you are a secondary in a poly/mono relationship so...

Here is the best definition of a unicorn anyone ever sent me as far as really understanding that unicorns do not exist: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=unicorn This is a great site that helps me understand the whole poly concept and how to deal with being poly...

Whoops, my bad, I want to make sense so let me try to explain it this way, I'm not sure if she really wants me to find a gf or if she just is super frustrated with my desire for more sex with her and the problems I have managing my jealousy over her gf who I have been with in the past.