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I am very surprised that some people aren't using condoms! I am not only worried about pregnancy and sti's but then theres the bacterial and yeast infections. I am allergic to the antibiotics that treat a bacterial infections and let me tell you, not fun. If I ever came across a lover mine or...

Sex and the City, Carrie, Aiden and Mr. Big! Also Twilight for sure!

Hello there. I'm from the San Antonio area, always interested in meeting new friends. I'd love to chat sometime!

Not sure if this will help but here goes. I have never really experienced jealousy before either. Recently however, I had a bout of it. I figured out where it was coming from. My husband wasn't meeting my needs. I have, for many years, discussed with him, clearly what those needs are. When I saw...

Years ago before my current marriage I was a secondary to a married woman. I became very close to her husband on a platonic, spiritual level. I found by 'including' him in my life was beneficial to us all. It enabled me to have even more respect for their marriage, their time alone together. I...

Sober light of day, ahh yes it started with his apology, thank you for that, it ended pretty well. He is going to spend some time thinking about why my past is such an issue for him. He says maybe because he has guilt, (being wired mono) for wanting to screw around and feels he needed to somehow...

So the hubby and I went out on a date, just the two of us. He got pretty buzzed, I stayed sober and we had a fantastic time. But, on the ride home he informs me that he's angry with me for 'giving him permission to date' he said he would really like to just go out and have sex with other women...

Now we take it slow, keep the communication going. I'm not seeing anyone right now nor do I have anyone I'm interested in at the moment, so one day at a time.

So I had to cancel my plans with her this weekend, it's my Birthday on Fri and my friends wouldn't take no for an answer. Then my hubby comes home and tells me he's not comfortable with the situation. Although he really likes her, he just can't date her. I guess her really is mono after all...

I just wanted to update. I came to the realization that I cannot dictate how thier relationship is going. Just because I wouldn't move that fast doesn't mean they can't. She's coming over this weekend and I am very excited about it. I really like her, she is fantastic to talk to and very honest...

Well said. I came up with a solution that will make us all happy. She comes here. We'll get together and celebrate our meeting each other and if they need some 'alone' time, they can escape to a hotel. My needs will be met, as well as thiers. I really really like her!

That's a good question. Mainly it comes down to consideration. He has been really inconsiderate of me since this began, we have had many many discussions about it but he has made no effort to be any different. It doen't help any that my Birthday is this weekend and he is more worried about when...

A little background first. I am 41yr old bi female married to a 34yr old straight male. My hubby has been mono his entire life. Me, not so much lol. I have had poly relationships in my past with females only, no men (by choice). We have recently, after 7+yrs of mono together opened up to poly. I...

So she and I have been contacting each other and I think I may have misjudged her. I like her. She seems to be very genuine and is open and honest and willing to communicate. I'm really excited about meeting her for lunch. I'm really feeling very hopeful right now. Yeah. My husband seems to be...

Her and I have opened up the lines of communication. We are all going to get together and chat. She is new to poly and was very considerate and understanding of my concerns so I'm feeling alot better about it. My hubby and I had a long talk today as well about my comfort levels and boundaries...

I also agree that the frequency of messages is normal, to a point. If they were normal getting to know you type. They just met. They have known each other a total of 5 days. Face to face for six hours. The rest of t has been through phone or email. The context of the communications were more of...

It was both the quantity and the context of the texts. I won't go into details, but they have cowgirl written all over them. Newtoday, you hit the nail on the head, he is definitely struggling. We have hab many conversations about both of our comfort levels and he seemed to develop amnesia the...

They had a great time on thier date. I however saw red flags all over the place. My husband totally disregarded the only boundary I gave him. I asked him not to get drunk. He did. We had a discussion about it and he immediately got defensive. I understand this was the first time fot him, but he...

We're in the SA area, always intetested in meeting like minded people

My husband has recently come around to being poly. After much discussion and pure honesty I must say it went pretty smooth. He still has some issues/boundaries to sort out, but so far so good. I am delightfully basking in the glow of how well our relationship has grown thus far and am looking...