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All the hugs, and hopes that it works out.

First of all, I feel really bad for what I said. I, too, am new to this and I had the bad sense to project on your description a situation a friend of mine is going through -- basically, her husband put completely inappropriate pressure on her to stay "married in name only" "for the kids"...

I want to apologize - on rereading this thread I think I projected a very different situation that was not implied in the original text, based on a situation a friend of mine is currently going through. My humble apologies.

Sorry, I'm new to this too. I have no idea what I'm talking about, either!

That doesn't sound like a poly situation at all... rather, it is a very common situation in the monogamy world where a de jure relationship sticks around for legal/financial/appearance/familial reasons whereas the real relationship(s) are elsewhere. It is really up to you do decide how long you...

Indeed it does. Definitely has some serious vacation planning potential... :D

Cool! Any good skiing nearby? ;)

Northern California We are in northern California as well! :)

Greetings! Greetings from a fellow Californian!

My wife and I are a (hetero) northern California couple who after over a decade of monogamy are tippytoing into the world of poly, in part because my wife is bisexual and we both agree that putting her in a box is not making either one of us happy. We have quite a few poly friends, so this is...