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    open or poly?

    I know my wife likes being a mother now. It was just hard for her the first few years. She puts so much energy into being mom. Our daughter is fortunate to have a SAHM for as long as she has so far. My wife would dare have our daughter at a day care...
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    open or poly?

    I really hope my wife isn't miserable. I know she likes being mom now. I don't think she wold be miserable i this open marriage...She doest act like it.
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    open or poly?

    My wife always knew I wanted a family..she always said some day she would. When we split up, that was part of the reason. So when she moved out, I bought a house and I started to date other women... She started calling me and wanted to know about my dates...Then she decided that she wanted to...
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    open or poly?

    To add... I was 12 years old when I saw my mom having sex a few feet away...I don't think she was embarrassed the next day when I told her I was in the room...I don't remember how I felt back then. I know soon after that, I moved to live with my dad. My wife did tell me recently that I always...
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    open or poly?

    I don't think we have serious marriage problems. We did a while back,but it is getting better. My wife grew up with a "sex is bad" attitude. I see that with her siblings as well. I grew up with a cheating Dad and Divorce, My mother bringing men home on occasion and one time when we all had to...
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    open or poly?

    Yes, I understand this. That's why I am on this forum. My wife isnt all that affectionate. I am all about the hugs and kisses. Sometimes I want to on the receiving end of it. I do know its all about communication. How can I get my wife to tell me what she is really thinking instead of telling...
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    open or poly?

    My wife was a virgin at age 25...It took about a year to consummate our relationship...I was always patient with her...I don't believe she would want to go out on a date with anybody else... I don't think I would mind at all if she had a relationship with another man (or woman)...when I met...
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    Having kids?? or.. To be or not to be?

    Hey Nadya Your thread caught my attention... My wife was a lot like you about motherhood. I was the one who always wanted to have a family. Before we married, she always said "some day I want kids" Eventually, after 8 plus years of living together, we got married. Then we hit our mid 30's...
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    hello from Texas

    My wife and I are new to this open marriage/poly arrangement. We are beginning new chapter after 22 years. I know I will be asking tons of questions.. I started another thread... I just don't see it yet...
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    open or poly?

    Hello everybody, My wife and I have been together for 22 years, married for 13 years. We still get along great most of the time, we are best friends, we co-parent, we have companionship, and we keep an intact home for our daughter. For 17 years, our marriage was almost sexless. That was fine...
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