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Moving Forward Hopefully beginning to work on things. I haven't brought up this issue or trying to have a super deep conversation on much yet. Just continuing to build the lines of communication and working on not bickering over little things. So far so good. I'll take the advice I have so far...

Hope this Helps Try your very best to keep lines of communication open between all of you. They way there is some degree of normality. If you are comfortable texting, calling, emailing, facebook, or possibly skyping use those means to stay in touch. I was/am in a lost distance thing from...

That's really good! Thanks for that, I really liked those openings cause they don't come off attacking. I think I'll go with something like that. Thanks a lot!

Thanks for that, Ton. Does anyone have suggestions on how I can make my feelings on the situation known? I'm trying not to create a giant mess of drama with everything, but I think that I have a right to express everything. I just don't wanna have everything I saw get used in a negative way...

So I've been reading a view other posts and had a question regarding fluid bonding. Is it basically having unprotected sex with your partner and/or partner? That's the basic idea I'm getting from it. But also that it isn't about about birth control or STD prevention, but about a connection with...

That writing idea is good. It may be something new that I can try. And thanks for the insight on the talking and listening that thing. I'm glad that it wasn't just me that considered that maybe it was a listening problem as well.

No worries, NYCindie, I get that you were trying to be helpful. I took it in good spirit and tried to explain my side a bit better. Hahaha, hope that wasn't read in a Seeker's screaming mindset. And Ray, thanks yeah, it was/is my first adult relationship. Drew and Brian both knew that. They...

I was planning on moving out that way before meeting either of them. I have other plans for where I'm heading that don't revolve around them too. However, I thought that it would be a benefit that there wouldn't be as much distance. They've continued to encourage me to move and have said they...

Thanks, Tonberry Yeah, alot of what you said is true. I also see that and have been trying to work on things. Like I said, I still talk with them. I just got off the phone with Brian before checking and replying to this. Both of them still want me to move to the city in the fall for school. So...

Thanks for the definitions I guess I want it to be a triad, with just us three, with no other people brought in. It was always my belief that it was just me, Drew, and Brian. I even asked and was assured on numerous occasions if it was just us three! So that is why I didn't take the Michael...

Thanks for the advice Yeah, I'm new to all this. So some of the lingo I'm not quite understanding. I've listed some below that I don't know what they mean, so if you could explain those it would be helpful. Poly-fi triad? Vee? Poly-fi vee? Unicorn?

I say that it was like cheating, because there was/seemed to be a mutual understanding that it was us three. When I'd first met them, I also started seeing another guy before anything serious happened with Drew or Brian. This was back when we'd only just begun talking. They got jealous and said...

Hi, everyone. I'm new to this both this site and the whole polyamorous relationship thing. I'll give a bit of background on my situation, because I'd really like some input, and maybe advice, too. I'm using fake names for privacy. Basically everything started at the end of 2009. I met this guy...