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I haven't snooped on his phone. He would have it lying around. I've just noticed that he'll message puppy videos to her FB messenger. That's it, no real conversation. When he said he was willing to stop the texts he made it seem like it didn't mean that much to him so that assured me and I left...

You're right, I intend on doing that next time he mentions her. I truly want the best for us and I don't want to be the possessive girlfriend but in the beginning of our relationship he asked me for advice about what was going on between them which in the end involved her leaving us because she...

Thank you for the kind words. Seriously, I've been feeling a lot of anxiety over this. Went for a run today so I feel a little better.

Yeah, you're right. I could go back to him and tell him to just stop. I guess there is nothing else he could do realistically. He told me it would take sometime to get over her. I wish he would be over it a lot sooner but that doesn't make sense.

YO! That sums it up perfectly. Yeah, I guess that's it. Off topic I consider myself a submissive so yeah I guess it would be hard to respect him if he truly is this way. I guess I'm waiting it out because I want him to prove it isn't true. I will say that when I've brought up the texting...

I agree with everything you're saying! My first love was like that, it was a warning sign for sure. but here I am. : ( Thank you for leveling with me. I do value my time and I'm worth more than that. At this point he's with me not her so I believe he's doing his best. He hasn't been...

Lol, sorry by that I mean he is the first guy I've dated who seems to genuinely care about how I feel. We do boyfriend/girlfriend stuff like go to the flea market and cook together. I could just leave him but I hate dating. Also I really do like him. He's a good person and he would never do...

This was really helpful, thank you! If my boyfriend and I break up I don't think I would be eager to give polyamory a try but who knows maybe I'll learn more about myself by then. I'll totally read the links, thanks.

Because I don't understand this person's purpose for him to keep coming back to her, especially if she intentionally tried to tell him what to do in his sex life with me. She wasn't even his girlfriend at this point. I feel like if he's able to keep forgiving this person, it's as if he doesn't...

Even though they obviously aren't compatible he's admitted it's hard to say no to her so it makes me anxious of how it could affect us. I want to be sure I'm with someone who values me for me and for whatever reason him having sex with this person again translates as him not valuing me.

I do think he is in denial. I don't think they would get back together but I don't think he is being honest about his feelings for her. He would be always be around for her to fool around with even though she had a fiance and boyfriend without his knowledge. She also cheated on him while...

Well, I guess none at the moment. I'll admit maybe it is a personal issue I have. If he were to start having sex with her again, someone he couldn't see for two days without arguing with, it makes me feel like my love and effort means nothing if he's willing to give time to someone who...

I feel it does affect me because I know she doesn't respect what we have. If they had broken up on good terms, maybe they wanted different things it wouldn't bother me as much but if she got involved with us again I just see a bunch of drama. She's immature and I can't deal with a brat who dated...

We've been dating for two months now. I'm 25 he's 24 We started dating when he became familiar with his poly identity which had a rocky start. Although they've officially been broken up for over a year now they would see each other on and off. They were together for 5 years. When he started...