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OK so since the INFJ's have hijacked this thread can I ask my fellow INFJ's a question: Do you also find yourself constantly analysing the people around you, the deeper meaning and dynamics of what they do and say, sometimes to the extent that it drives you and the poor people you analyse crazy...

Carson, I can identify with a lot of what you are saying. I would even add by saying that for me, sex itself is a spiritual experience. It is not as if I need to look for forgiveness in my spirituality for such an experience. Quite the opposite - it is a natural consequence of my spirituality...

Thank you Opalescent and everyone else for the advice. Opalescent I think your observations are very accurate. Tiamat is definitely more comfortable with the physical side of poly, and I am more comfortable with the emotional side of it. I have bought "More than two". We have already found some...

Welcome here, Bluesun. I am new here myself, so I will leave it to the more experienced members to give you the kind of solid support I've seen them give others. However, I was moved by your story and your courage, and I felt compelled to just express one thought: I would venture to predict...

I am sorry for the pain you all had to go through, Northhome. I have a bit of experience with BPD in relationships and can confirm that it is indeed an extremely tough obstacle when looking for longer term stability in monogamy let alone polyamory. I think anybody practicing or exploring poly...

Myers Briggs and relationship dynamics I see the topic of Myers Briggs personality types and their prevelance in the polyamorous community has been discussed at length in a previous thread. I'm quite sure a variety of different personality types would be interested in polyamory although can...

I think people who identify as straight probably tend to make the mistake of thinking that, because of the apparent symmetry in gay polyamory, things should be easier. However, I know from some of my gay friends and their experiences that this is very much not the case, and a whole different set...

Thank you all for your well thought through responses. It again confirms my suspicion that people that are willing to delve this deep in the world of emotions and sexuality tend to be very much in touch with human nature. @Nordic and @Kevin, We will definitely continue seeing both our...

This is us, 43 year old male in a committed relationship with my wife (36) for 15 years. Earlier in our relationship we had a couple of very naive threesome experiences, but we made mistakes and decided not to go there again. What followed was more than a decade of guilt, anger, insecurity, and...