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I have done a lot of reading about BPD and am encouraging Steve and Louise to do so too. I will seek out some therapy for myself. The stuff I have read online has helped on realising that I am not the cause of her issues, which was my concern.

I'm with you on this one, except I'm clear on the reality of everything. It's Louise who seems to think that despite so much love, attention and care to help her and make things as easy and comfortable as possible, that we are only with her out of duty or necessity. I am definitely not prepared...

The quad broke down because my ex was very controlling, manipulative and liked things his way both in our relationship and in the way of playing the puppeteer, or so he thought, in the quad. He pushed things forward whilst at the same time feeding Steve and Louise with stories about things that...

Thanks for your reply! :) The isolated actions could be interactions inside or outside of the bedroom. Things that then don't feel balanced to her. In reality, as I am the 'newbie,' the interactions between them inside and outside of the bedroom are far more practised, easy, normal and close...

Hi! My first post! Really hoping for some insight, suggestions and support. I'm Dolly, 49, in a throuple relationship with Steve and Louise for 18 months. Steve and Louise have been married for 30 years and this is their first and only ever throuple relationship. They decided to dip their toe...