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Update (since I'm really terrible at this stuff and feel like I'm bringing other people down) I just got back from roughly 10 days with my BF in Canada. Despite the fact it's frickin' freezing there (and only going to be worse), and my BF had to work a good portion of the time I was there...

My boyfriend has said similar things as stated above. He's watched my husband throw tantrums to get what he wants and it makes the BF upset because there's nothing he can do about it (he lives in Edmonton, I live in Los Angeles...for now). My husband is a brilliant man... 98% on the MENSA...

...I feel like I've turned my husband into a monster. He's not evil...we just have different perspectives. ...and sometimes, my feelings of hurt overshadow his moments of awesome. GG, to your question of harming children, never. He would never, EVER do that kind of thing. He's never...

Sorry I've neglected reading your responses here... I've been extremely busy--I'm finishing a Master's program this year and have been arduously trying to maintain my 4.0. I do apologize for the rather dramatic suicidal thought in there... I've just recently discovered I may have clinical...

OMG, thank you *all* for the responses. I love my husband. I love my boyfriend. I could be mono for my boyfriend. I once felt that same way with my husband, but I guess it boils down to a singular defining moment.... I *love* my husband, don't get me wrong. He's adorable, he's...

How do I *know* beyond a shadow of a doubt I'm poly? How do I *know* I'm not just saying it because it's convenient (ie, I don't want to hurt someone?) How do I know I'm just not simply a slut?

I'm Baaa-aaaak... ...just when you thought you were rid of me... Honestly? I've been insanely busy. I'm working on finishing a Master's degree, starting a Doctorate, plus maintaining a blog about the Blood Type Diet. ..and I may have been drinking a bit... Tonight I, as the manager for an...

Wow. Apologies for the meltdown. I have no idea what's going on with me. I'm not normally that depressed or... whatever. Obnoxiously self-centered. Thank you for the responses that actually gave hope. I seriously wish I could hug you all. I could go into theories on that meltdown, but it...

This is the e-mail exchange between myself and the secondary...It sucks because I don't want him to leave, but I really think it'd be best for him. But, I also shouldn't be dictating that to him. He's a big boy (37 this year; husband is 47; and I'm 34). And, here again, I'm feeling badly...

Warning: This posting is highly emotional; these are the current feelings of the author. Please do not be offended or judgmental. I don't really know where else to post this. I don't really have friends I can talk to--well, that's not true; I do, I just feel like I'm bothering them. I come...

Thanks for the support and opinions and such. This weekend actually went well, all things considered. The first day that the new guy was in town really upset me, since it was the night before that things had been stated, but... once they got a chance to speak privately, the hubby pretty much...

Yeah, I'm just so confused about everything. We're not in a D/s relationship (though he wishes we were). He's mono, I'm not, so I guess that's where the "control" comes in. He says he's compromised a lot for me and that I've not done anything for him... I dunno. I don't know what to say...

Sorry, I didn't provide enough info. I was really upset and trying not to make it sound like I was typing to someone about him whilst he was going off on me. From an e-mail from December: Me: 1 You could cuddle, kiss (even mooch, which I didn't give up easily), and grope. (Intimate) is...

Hi. I'm really new to these forums and...well, this lifestyle all together. I'm married to a monogomous man. He's given me *me* guidelines.... a mutual friend of ours was well within my guidelines (ie: He groped me, jokingly). My husband has now decided that he's upset with said friend...