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    What to do? She doesn't think I love her enough.

    Somebody asked about if it's anyone's first poly relationship.\ My girlfriend had a husband and a girlfiend. She divorced her husband, broke up with her girlfriend and eventually started dating our boyfriend. Her and our boyfriend then took the girlfriend back and dated her for a while, and...
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    What to do? She doesn't think I love her enough.

    I insisted at first that they get the bed, because she was super insecure to begin with and she was the best friend I ever had. She's happy with the sleeping arrangements, but he does not like them at all- he wants us to switch off nights until I can afford a bigger bed and he's suggested him...
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    What to do? She doesn't think I love her enough.

    Her and I like our own "space", but like to spend every moment together, if that makes sense. We plan on having a door between the duplexes and the only reason why we'd want a duplex instead of one big apartment is because his child doesn't always get along with my youngest child and it would...
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    What to do? She doesn't think I love her enough.

    Our boyfriend totally gets it, only he's not willing to risk losing her- she has threatened to leave if I "replace her". I get that. Sucks, but I get that. I do agree that it's impossible demands. I can't "prove" my love enough for her because everything I do, she only sees what I do for...
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    What to do? She doesn't think I love her enough.

    The plan is to eventually get a duplex- one side for each female (because we like our own space) and he can come and go on both sides. They'll marry because they were originally gonna marry before I came into the picture. I'm the one who's mostly insisting on a secret for now- I don't consider...
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    What to do? She doesn't think I love her enough.

    I haven't learned the terms yet, but I believe we're all supposed to eventually fall in love with eachother. They keep telling me that me and her are to be equal, but I honestly don't see it happening- the transition is hard for her and she seems to be okay as long as he loves her best, etc...
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    How to manage guaranteed future heartbreak?

    Subbing to this thread. My situation sometimes feels like a situation soomed for heartbreak (most likely mine), so I'm taking notes here.
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    What to do? She doesn't think I love her enough.

    I'm in a relationship with a man and a woman. They were boyfriend and girlfriend first, then I got invited a couple months ago. The man was my high school crush and then I lost contact with him for 20 years. The woman I met upon reconnecting with the man and we immediately hit it off as best...
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    Polyamory with children

    Currently, my boyfriend and girlfriend technically live together, as they are the "original couple", but my boyfriend works out of town during the week, so my girlfriend ends up spending most the time at my house anyways. The eventual plan for the future is for us three to buy a duplex and my...
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    Hello from MA.

    I'm Marie. I'm in a polyamorous relationship with my best friend and my high school crush, who I reconnected with last year after losing contact after high school. Technically, they live together and I live seperately, but as Paul works out of town during the week, Nichole spends the most the...
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