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Just an update to thank everyone for their responses. After two months, things have settled down to a much more positive glowy feeling! I think most of the negativity was actually limerance (from what I understand of the term) and as we've got closer we have become more relaxed with each other...

6 months? Nooooo, not doing that! I refuse! On the basis that the thought process may be limerant, I ended up talking to the lady concerned about it (shock! horror!). Turns out she was having other insecurities but just doing a better job at hiding it/pretending it wasn't there. We talked...

I'm clucking? I could believe it - the patterns are similar to addicts I've known. Ironic for someone who's managed to avoid getting addicted to anything else his whole life! I categorically do not want to go cold turkey!

LovingRadiance - how long have your husband's bouts lasted?

Thanks both! Yes, my wife and I are closer, if anything, than ever. We've been making a special effort to use that energy on each other (and indeed some of the great date ideas!); having amazing sex and are as cuddly and lovey as always (we're a very affectionate pair). It's really good. The...

NRE on a day a week New here and I find myself needing - well, I don't know - support? Encouragement? Advice? I'm in what for many on here may be an enviable situation, having successfully made the switch to poly within a very long term relationship with no problems we've not been able to work...