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But since what actually happened here is that my husband told his friend that he didn't want to proceed with a sexual relationship but still wanted to stay close friends with her, and SHE refused to speak to HIM for months afterwards, as I posted about earlier, what exactly is your point...

My husband was well aware that the risk of him catching genital herpes was low if his potential lover was not having an outbreak. But it was still a risk he was not interested in taking, for himself, for me, and especially because one of the five people in his sexual network would have been very...

Ok, I swore I wasn't going to do this but it is just too ridiculous to not comment on. So London, let me get this straight. By your logic, my husband had no right to change his mind about having sex with his friend because she has a incurable STD, because by doing so, he was "discriminating"...

GalaGirl, thanks so much for your post, you have some amazing suggestions that I will be discussing with my hubby over the weekend. I am wondering, though, based on what I have written, would you say that my hubby's friend was trying to break us up? You did include that on your list of her...

He DID deal with his own relationship, as I have already said. I, and the other people in our sexual network, had some input, as is perfectly appropriate since our sexual health was at stake too. No, we do not have it. We have both been tested for it multiple times. Not everybody on this...

She has genital herpes, which she didn't tell him about until after they had messed around. He (and I) made the decision that was something we did not want to risk, especially because they had dated for months and she had never told him. He still valued his friendship with her. He just did not...

One thing that my hubby and I (married 14 years, three kids) have repeatedly butted heads over (that is an understatement) have been the motivations and ethics of a couple of his partners. This is something I have gotten hypersensitive about because I am just so sick of the same damned issue...