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The story is a little complicated, but here's a summary: Before we met, I had only had one serious relationship (of one year), and she had had 0. We met and started dating in college in Country A. After college, I moved to Country B for grad school and she came back to the US. At the time I...

Thank you all. You've helped me a lot. I spoke to my wife, and for now the answer to her request is no. I said I'll continue to think about it, and might re-evaluate it in the future. While she disagrees that this guy would be "messy," she understands my apprehension (and her sister's!) and is...

Sorry, this was a bad paraphrase. What she meant was I have nothing to be insecure about, she has chosen me as her life partner, and has always proven that in her actions and words. She meant my insecurity is not grounded in reality. One of the takeaways from this whole experience is that I...

Yep! That's me 😂 Greedy is probably the wrong word. I just meant that it sounds like in this case we both can't get what we want and I need to be more okay with that.

That is the first thing I did and I continue to do this! Our transparency and honesty with each other is paramount. Exactly! I think he's going to want as much as he can get and do what he can to get that. Thank you for the advise. I think this is what I'll do, it's what I was leaning towards...

Thanks! Great concept. He would definitely be in my "messy list". Her counter is that she doesn't want to be with other people really, just this guy that happens to be in her life anyway. She doesn't even want to "date" him. Simply be romantic and maybe fool around whenever they are...

Hi all, I'm new here, I come to you because I'm in a tricky situation and would like some advice from this community. TLDR: My wife, 29f, and I, 30m, have been married for 6 years and together for 11. We had a 6-month open relationship before we got married (at my request) and been monogamous...