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    Hi All!

    Why not? Sex and love can be exclusive; one doesn't need "love" to have sex. (The opposite is true as well.) I've had sex with friends before and we didn't need to be in love.
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    Unclear relationship, from the metamour's perspective

    Sleepovers are a touchy thing for a lot of people. It is for me. My husband went on one very recently and I tried to get past it. I couldn't. So as for right now, sleepovers while not off the table, we need to have a discussion about it. It does make me cringe you have not met his wife yet. You...
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    Hi All!

    We're not interested in finding other people to be in love with but more like really good friends instead of a boy/girl friend. We are both non-neurotypical so a relationship, like marriage or something along the lines of boyfriend/girlfriend, can be demanding on us.
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    Told my wife I am poly how can I make this easier for her

    Bam. That's it. It even effects less mono people. I'm always afraid that I'll be the one taken for granted. It's so simple. And this is why my husband and I are ok with a hierarchy. We are the most important people to each other. I come first as does he.
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    lunchtime discussion with my husband

    That sounds wonderful!
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    coping ideas for dh stay-overs

    It sounds like she is the one to have to think about other's happiness. They can think about her's once in a while.
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    Told my wife I am poly how can I make this easier for her

    I'm a married bi-female and my husband is also bi. I've only been in one monogamous relationship in my life; the rest have been open (but not in an ethical way). The relationship I have with my husband is the first ethical open relationship I've been in. We've been open from day one. But it's...
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    Feeling crowded by metamour

    You need to be honest about how you feel and he needs to be honest about his feelings for you and for her. It might not be her that is doing the pushing, it might be him. It could be both. Again the nature of relationships can change; a secondary might become a primary and that is what maybe...
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    Husbands first date

    My husband spent a weekend away; I think two nights was a bit too much for me, especially since I have yet to meet her. Friday was the hardest night, Saturday was a lot easier. I, of course, was happy him, but I'm able to feel more than one emotion at a time- so amongst the happiness there was...
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    Hi All!

    Hi! Female half of a married bi-couple. I'm very new here, I just joined with in the last half hour. We're call ourselves poly-lite.
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    Hi all, very new here.

    Hi all, very new here.
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