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Yes I do think I have strong feelings for her. But I also know I am not looking to be on an escalator with her either. The things she says to me and her actions are very different then the statement she made. She says she has thought about going bi with me but she knows thats not her...

Update: Pip talks a lot about us getting matching lingerie, matching sex toys, etc. But then today she followed up with I do not want to lead you on and that this a platonic friendship. Now when we had the threesome me and her did not do anything to each other. Even though I am bi I am...

Take things slow she said. That did not happen. One thing lead to another and we ended up in bed together. 😬 but the thing is, it was so natural. So effortless. We have had threesomes before but nothing even close to what this was. We laughed, things were clumbsy and things were beautiful. Next...

Hello Long time since I have been active here. :) Anyway, I am married. Have been together for 17 years. We have a mutual friend pip. Best friend actually. We do everything together. We have for well over a year now, actually going on two years. Pip is very involved in our life and we are in...

I would let it happen organically. Triads are tricky and best if they are not forced. Let time just take its course and they will figure it out.

Blunt honesty! Seriously. Communication is so key here and be vulnerable. But this has to be all 3 people. If it's not you will hit road blocks. We do not unicorn hunt but have been in a few triads because of being approached. We are in 2 triads at the moment. One platonic and one sexual. The...

Sounds like you have experience and know your pitfalls pretty well. Like the pp said just take things slow and continue to work on your self. The one thing I have found from being polyam is that I am in a relationship with my self. I am my own primary. Everyone else is a second. From one...

A couple of questions for you to ponder on. Why are you interested in her? Just to have a 3rd or do you really like her? Is it a kink that you want to try on for size? If you are scared about losing him why bring a girl into the mix? The reason why I ask these things are just to have...

Thanks but sadly I cannot take credit for such a great thread. It was started by another member. I see that you are not part of local poly groups yet? If you are in northern cali there are a lot of great poly groups!!

Have you looked into Facebook groups? Also I have had some luck with tinder. I am part of a pretty big community on Facebook and that has changed my entire life as far as being poly goes.

Hi, Advice from the other side. Just be honest. When we started I was texting a lot because I didn't want her to be the odd man out, since I was already in a relationship. It was really weird for me and then I got resistance and it almost ended it. I think it's so hard to tell what everyone's...

Just penis vagina. Other stuff he is ok with.

Autumleaves-thank you for your response. I am glad to hear that it can work out. I like her a lot and we works so wonderfully as 3 just on a friendship point of view. We are supposed to go on a trip next month so I know he will be talking to her very very soon.

That's where I get confused. He wants to spend time with her and do things with her just no intercouse. They talk alone and have their own relationship to some extent.

Have not been on in a while. Life moves fast. Too fast. A little bit of a back story. I have been open poly for a few years now. Nothing serious just some light fun. Madmaxx decided to to be open also around 6 months ago and it has not gone very well. He has found he is just more mono. So fast...

I personally do not think you need to figure your shit out its her that needs to do that. If she wants to be open ten you should have that option also. If it's too much for her to handle then maybe she shouldn't be open. There needs to be a compromise or either way it will not work and will...

Sorry. Just "feeld". It's ok. Gotten a few matches but nothing that has gone past the initial first day convos. Honestly I think online dating is super hard but very doable but in person might be easier. I am part of a pretty big Facebook community and so many more like minded people this...

I have done ok on OKC but shut it down for personal reason. Right now the most luck I have had is on tinder. Also feeld and not too much luck on that.

It's so weird to reread back to past post and to see how your thinking as changed or how in one moment you can feel one way yet feel different later. I swear sometimes I cringe at my thoughts and how silly they seem to be at times. Things move fast in my life! They always have. I don't know...

Back to the drawing board....... Surfer dude has been very quiet since our date and it's been kind of odd. So tonight I messaged him and we got to talking about what the other person is looking for and I said I am actually looking for some romance (just in general). He then asked "so you are...