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    Finding myself in a poly world

    Actually no I don't think 10 years older is too old school. I'm not even sure what I meant when I wrote that. I'm sure I had a reason but now I'm not sure. I don't think it was keeping up with the times though. He seems pretty hip on that. I do however have a very hard time reading him. I'm...
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    Finding myself in a poly world

    I went on a date! I am so giddy! I have not been on a date in forever. It was fabulous. We went to a local dive bar and talked and had a few drinks. I went on a date with surfer dude. He is so different. Very adult. About 10 years older than me. I really liked that part. I do worry though that...
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    Okcupid: Does it work?

    I'm not too sure on these percentages. Madman and me are around 92% we are so different on so many things it's not even funny. He is an isfp and I am an intj. We only have the I in common.
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    Finding myself in a poly world

    I am hoping to meet this weekend. we both commute and have busy schedules so finding the right days has been somewhat of a challenge.
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    Finding myself in a poly world

    So I am down to one from OKC. Shades and I think I will rename him surfer dude. We have moved from talking on kik to texted talking. But he is still on and off again talking. He will talk then disapear. I find it very frustrating. Mostly because I don't know what he is wanting. Meaning is he...
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    Online dating blows

    Thank you so much. That is exactly what I am looking for!! To answer your questions to maybe help better understand what I want: 1. Age: not too much but if way younger or older I don't think I would be interested. Around 10 years either way. 2. Kids: I would prefer it only because I have...
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    Finding myself in a poly world

    That threw me also. If the whole family were to meet then it would be a friend situation and I had thought that is what it was. So the question kind of surprised me. Also I think the question at this point in time is a little silly unless that is all you are looking for and to that I would say...
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    Online dating blows

    No women can be just as bad. Madman isn't having that great of a time online him self. Every girl he talks to online asks if she can be his Dom.
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    Finding myself in a poly world

    Yep. It was so bizarre.
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    Finding myself in a poly world

    Right! Really sad too because I never saw it coming. We hit it off great. No sexy talk. I had even told him that sex is off the table for me right now (this was a few weeks ago). He forgot I guess.
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    Finding myself in a poly world

    Thanks for the response. I'm surprise you got what I was saying from my ramble. I was surprised he wanted to bring his wife too. Madman has never meet any of my past guys and doesn't care too. I only asked if he could go because of army man wanting to bring his entire family so I figured it...
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    Online dating blows

    I am so sorry what happened. You are right being specific is a good idea. The only things I know for sure is I don't want any more children. I don't want a husband, the only think my husband and I share is our children and a bed. Everything else is separate. I am super independent and like it...
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    Online dating blows

    Thanks for the advise. I do reply to guys who have a high percent as me. I at times have a hard time expressing my wants. I guess that comes from years of things in my life always changing (I have been with my company for 3 years and have been moved jobs 5 times) so I tend to take things in life...
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    Online dating blows

    Online dating is hard. Heck I think dating in general is hard. But I am also socially awkward. That doesn't help matters. I don't respond if they are not in California. I did the long distance thing and although it was great I'm not looking to do it again.
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    Online dating blows

    Question on online dating? I get asked a lot what I am looking for. How best to answer that when I'm not really sure. I mean if I find a guy and hit it off and it grows naturally into a boyfriend situation that would be great but I do not like to force things. Most of my prior relationship...
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    Finding myself in a poly world

    Quick update. Mr. Big is no longer around. Knew it wasn't going anywhere so no point. Still talking to the other guy. Will update his name. Kinda forgot. She like talking to a wall. Also kind of weird. But ok army man. Wants to meet. Great I'm up for that. Says meet as a family because my...
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    Online dating blows

    Thank you. It is perfect for the beach. Leather, mud mats, and a sun roof.
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    Online dating blows

    Thanks. I hadn't thought of that.
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    Finding myself in a poly world

    No I didn't think that is what you meant at all. I just meant I do not have a hard time ending things. In fact I have a harder time starting things sometimes.
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    Online dating blows

    Thanks :)
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