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Thanks I plan on taking that down. One thing I am learning is I cannot control other people or give rules as to how to live their life. How people talk to me is their choice and how I respond is mine. Yes I can be uptight sometimes depending on the situation. And no I do not ever send nude...

Good point. I hadn't thought of it that way. The reason I had put it was not wanting inappropriate talk. Meaning hey baby send me naked pictures. So I guess it should be worded differently.

I have not met Army Man yet. We live a few miles from each other funny enough though. We even grew up in the same neighborhood. Very bizarre. I am going to give it a chance though. We get along amazing so far. Almost like we have known each other in past lives. If it isn't going to work though...

I want to add something to ponder about with being poly and stable or mono and stable. Do we not have friends also. Deep friends that we love? Maybe we don't sleep with these friends but is that the only difference. I have one friend. We are sort of like a bad married couple. She is crazy we...

Oh how things happen so fast in the poly world. People move very fast. Maybe too fast for me sometimes. I am the type of person to ponder things to no end. I know that about myself so I tend to just jump in usually (how I got my car) or I ponder so much nothing comes of it (why it's taking me 2...

I want to thank you and curse you for posting the link to this personality test. I took it and it was like crazy how spot on it was. So spot on its scary. But it's not the same as what others have said they have gotten so I'm a little shocked that I got it and I practice polyamory. Very...

Jetta :)

yes a play on words. so i am just going to dive right in and hope that his journal of sorts just grows organically. a slight back story. I had a LDR and I was/married about 2 years ago. The LDR ended rather poorly a few months later i found out i was pregnant with M.M.s baby and just stop...

Relationships are super complex and what works for one does not always work for the other. I have seen super strong mono couples but like the PP said it's the people in it that will make or break it regardless if it's mono or poly. That being said I am more comfortable being poly. My marriage...

I think we might be better at it because we want it. When you want something in life you naturally try harder at it and we love being in love. Or why else be poly. Most mono people I know don't even like their partner. I love all of my relationships or I wouldn't be in them, at least long term.

Ok so I read all of the replies and changed what I had to say. Please let me know what to add. Also I want to say that I posted it last night and already had a few interests. Oh and also I do not plan on adding my picture. I have no problem giving it through kik but not for everyone to see...

Thank you so much for the response. You gave me a lot to think about. My plan is to drive cross country to the east coast (Maine, Virginia, etc). I love history and would love to go to historical places back east. Also visiting haunted places and cemeteries is a hobby of mine. So yes just by...

Awe thank you. I am horrible with words. I'm looking for a friend/boyfriend that I can go out on dates with, text with, but also take the sex part super slow if it happens at all. Lol maybe that's not so realistic. I'm just really not looking to jump into bed. It's just not me.

Please be kind. I am not a writer and have a hard time putting my thoughts down. If anyone would love to help me write a better one I am all ears. Here it is: I am a hard working girl who likes to live life to the fullest. I enjoy traveling. Any chance I can get to get away I go. Most...

thanks for the article. :) My answers are below just cause i love Q&As: 1. Do you want an open relationship? I know i do not like the idea of being owned by someone else or owning anyone so an open relationship is ideal for me. 2. Is your relationship stable and happy? I think this...

I love this idea.

Naw no reason to be sorry for other dudes. I know many girls who are as horrible. M.M. has a few dating sites that he is on and the other day he told me it was really hard for him to find a "real person" to talk to. I think the online world has created a lot of "fake" people. As in they have no...

Thanks for the tip. I think people guys and girls spam in general. Just to see who they can get to talk to them.

People are very bizarre creatures. I don't think I could put a picture on OKC of myself for the exact reason you stated but then again I would also have more real people contact me if they could see I was a real person. I have my pic on kik if it does get past the point of just spamming.

I have two that are very very different from each other. The first is how I wish it was now, but I know that it's not realistic with having kids. The 2nd is just more of a fantasy. 1st: I wish that we (MM and I) lived in separate houses and completely dated separately, but also each other. I...