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Hi Galagirl, you've hit the nail on the head with the "frustrating conversations" with V. I've had to deal with this so often over the years. He'll have a few weeks or a few months in which he'll be fixed on an idea and get extemely angry if I don't share the same view. At times we've just let...

V. and I getting closer Hi Galagirl and kdt26417, thanks for keeping this conversation going, I appreaciate this so much. Having insight from people that have some experience in poly is very helpful as this is 100% new to me. I'll try and address everything you've both been saying and more...

she's 20, we're 30 and 35 In my view the relationship worked when V. and I shared the experience of having a new girlfriend together. Not necessarily on a "primary, secondary" basis, but just more appropiate to our age/experience/needs. The three of us were full of energy, V. and I were...

life and carreer are combined, between rock and hard place Hi Kevin, thanks for reaching back.

thanks for the step by step breakdown Hi Galagirl, thanks so much for the insight. I am beginning to accept the idea of maybe having to move on, although it's heart-wrentching, as I've built my carreer and my life path together with V. and it will be SO difficult to keep hold of that...

not officially Thanks for your imput, V. has stated he has dumped me, S. has stated she's still with me but unsure on wether to continue on with me in a triad. She goes from hot to cold almost on a daily basis.

Hi all! I'm at the worst place I've ever been in my life. Need guidance. I'm 30 years old. My boyfriend of 9 years V. (35) and our girlfriend of 9 months S. (20) have technically dumped me. We all live together and work together running a music label and concert venue. V. and I had a monogamous...