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This is a very good point, and something I hadn't thought about. I've never had to deal with an addict. He is addiction prone. He mentioned having other non-substance related addiction issues in the past. He even seemed addicted to ME at one point. I never fully bought the "I just keep this kind...

I'm opposite of yinz, an hour outside of Philly. I've got friends in the burgh, so I visit there a lot n'at :p Yeah, that's why I'm closeted about this lifestyle right now. The last thing I need is people all up in my business while *I'm* trying to figure this all out! Only a handful of people...

Yeah, that really bugged me. I'm fine with pot, and he told me he'd done hard drugs in the past, but I was surprised to find out that he had a little chem stash. He claims that he only keeps them for his friends who use it, but again, I have a hard time believing that. Because of the distance...

Thanks for the reply and reassurance. I'm so nervous and full of so many different emotions, and I'm afraid - of the unknown. What this breakup will mean. I'm afraid of how he'll react, I have not a clue what I'm going to say. And yeah, I'm not looking forward to the pain, but I'll get through...

I agree with this completely. Just re-reading my post after taking a break away from it, I can see that the negatives outweigh the positives, by far. I just hope he agrees with me that this is the right thing. I hope I can stick to my guns. As much as I like having him in my life, chatting with...

I'm new here and one of the reasons I decided to join this site is because I'm nearing the end of a relationship - I have very little hope of things working out, so this isn't a "should we break up" type post. I just need to vent, clear my head, and prepare myself. A bit of background, I'm...

Hi! I'm somewhat new to poly relationships. I've known that I was capable of loving more than one person since I was 13, but didn't pursue it because it violated social conventions and I was afraid to be slapped with the "slut" label. So I unwittingly became a serial monogamist instead. That...