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Well, Hermes responded to my message the day after I sent it. It was a very well written, thought out reply. Basically he said that his schedule sucks and is impacting all his relationships (loves, FWB, friends) negatively. He doesn't think he can pursue a relationship with anyone at this point...

Thank you for your thoughts, Magdlyn! Dating IS hard. I have had very, very little experience at it and what experience I do have is ~7 years old. Hermes texted me last night to apologize for not getting back to me on Saturday. He'd been busy at work and then just exhausted once he was off. I...

. I'm angry. And annoyed. And frustrated. And hurt. Hermes texted me last night from work and everything seemed good. Just normal conversation, and I told him I was glad he'd texted. He said he'd be really busy tonight at work so might not be able to respond right away. Cool, thanks for the...

My date was good. Really good. Heavy petting/oral in the car good. *blush* He's getting the nickname Hermes. I'd like to see him again. There are a couple issues though. First, we had our date on Wednesday night and I texted him yesterday to say I had a good time and hope he did too. He...

Now you do.:rolleyes:

I have a date. Like, really a date. Not a "meet a person who happens to be poly and try to be friends and maybe someday it might lead to more." I've been talking to this guy off OKC for a little over a week now and we've been flirting heavily. Even sexting. *blush* Q fully approves and wants...

I forgot my favorite one! Q teases me with it now... Have I mentioned that I'm 30?!

I'd never talked to this person before.

Things with Loki seem to be settling down. I found the part of the state insurance policy that says that a stepparent is not financially responsible for the stepchild, and Q will re-apply with that attached to the paperwork. We've also started a behavior chart where his reward is screen time...

I can tell you that just talking about it did make my marriage closer and more loving than ever. Actually following through has been amazing as well. Talk. Talk until you need a break, take it, and then talk more. You can do this. I was more prepared for my husband to bring it up than it...

I feel like I've been where you are, in regards to not being comfortable with my hubby and metamour being alone together, though we don't do threesomes (yet?:p). I really loved this article to explain to Q and Miss M that I was working on things, but needed to move slowly. Good luck!

I'm about to lose my mind. Loki (the kid) informed his teacher today that he was trying to get in trouble. He's always had behavior problems when there isn't a parent present. In kinder, we actually attended school with him, all day, every day. And he was fine, as long as we were in the room...

I had this guy message me and ask if I wanted to hang out that night and watch a DVD. I told him that I need to get to know someone a bit before agreeing to meet them. He was polite and told me to have a nice night. The next night, he asked again if I wanted to hang out. I got snarky and told...

I told Q that he could use his hardware, and he said it helped. I'm glad. We had a really nice weekend and even invited Miss M to spend Saturday evening with us, but she had homework. I opened an OKC account, admittedly because I was doing the "if he's got a GF then I want someone" dance. I...

Q is concerned that limiting his time with Miss M to once a week will lead him to resent me. I understand his point of view. We're working out a compromise. He saw her two evenings this week, one with all of us, and he went over there this morning, which was fine because I slept through most of...

Sekhmet is the Egyptian goddess of war, and my furbaby. When we acquired a second furbaby, we wanted to continue to the god theme and settled on Q, the godlike being from Star Trek. Q ended up being my husband's baby. Miss M is so named because it matches her real name and because of the...

I wondered that too! I reported a few before I thought that I might be making more work for the mods...

Ok, good. I know every forum has its own ebb and flow and I just wanted to make sure people weren't avoiding my thread for other reasons! Haha, you just met me, how did you get inside my head?!:p Point taken. I am trying to hurry myself. I feel like I'm slowing them down and I don't want to...

Advice I've noticed users saying that people tend not to give advice on blogs. I wanted to put it out there, that if you get through my ramblings and have anything that you think is helpful, please share! I promise to work on not taking it personally, even if it's not what I want to hear. :)

Crappy day. Felt terrible all day; I really hope this isn't going into pneumonia. This kind of sick makes me incredibly emotional, and I was on the verge/in tears often. Got through work without anyone noticing more than I didn't feel good though. That's a plus. I came home and Q and I made...