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I've always been very coy about sex and physical attraction. More coy than I intend to be, it's just my natural instinct to be more reserved and modest. I'm trying to be less that way and more open sexually because I realize that's sexy too.

Weird. I was actually just about to make a thread regarding this exact thing.

Unfortunately, this is a huge problem in the poly world in my area. I know several people who are sincerely poly at heart, but because they have a DADT along with dishonesty. I wouldn't deny that they are poly, but those specific issues I don't feel are proper examples of an actual "poly"...

Super cherish those alone times when you get to that point. Alone time in your own personal environment makes all the difference.

Zed and I have discussed this a few times. I let him know I would be okay if we removed them considering our relationship and I feel it stands more in HIS way than my own. He doesn't want to take it off simply because he feels it is dishonest. I continue wearing mine until he tells me he wants...

Was communicating with Cuba last night about our physicality over Monday evening. The important question of "What are the rules with us?" came up. Of course, the simplest answer I could give him at 4am was that we simply needed to disclose to Zed once certain grounds were reached. Of course...

Patience YES. So important. Just be very wary of her sensitive emotions right now. People can tend to jump to conclusions when emotions get high. Just know that right now all you have is time. Your attentive respect of her confusion will only help make your relationship with her stronger. Just...

I don't really know that I have enough experience yet to give an appropriate answer on those questions. Personally, I think it depends on each party that is involved and the relationship it brings. So long as everything is communicated honestly then there should be no reason for anyone to feel...

I've been posting/lurking on here for a bit now, mostly trying to keep my thoughts organized in this new journey of ours. But I realized that I never actually posted an introduction. Alot of my situation is explained in my signature so I will just expand a little more: I am a 25 year old...

Question for everyone: Do you all believe it is possible for NREs to help create and solidify more intense LREs in other partners/your primary?

I'm kind of in the same place, nycindie. Had my second date with Cuba Monday evening. We stayed in his place and watched movies all night. He ended up asking me to stay overnight, which I did gladly. Things advanced physically very quickly later on. No actual sex, but it established a nice flow...

Soooooo, things with Cuba are definitely going faster than I was anticipating. He ended up having me stay over with him and we moved everything to his bedroom later in the evening. We spent the next 10 hours or so laid up in bed, snuggling, playing, and enjoying each other until we dozed off...

I just wanted to drop in and say that I really enjoy reading about your rendezvous, I will be keeping up. I really admire your spirit and outlook behind each of these developments! Also, rubidoux, there's something about your persona as well as your avatar on top of that, which reminds me of my...

So....the past two weeks have definitely been a whirlwind for us in our poly lives. In both good and bad ways. Bad News: One of Zed's close friendships seems to have fallen apart entirely. They met a few months ago and after revealing to her that we are poly, she and Zed seemed to grow closer...

^^ Yessss. All of this. For years in my past relationships, I have been guilty of some pretty heavy NRE. I honestly feel like nycindie's philosophy here is exactly what I need to be teaching myself within this whole new poly experience. I truly feel that the relationship grows healthier and...

Bunnielight originally derived from a spin off of the Jim Benton character as I was obsessed with it as a teenager. My SN was originally happiebunnie. After many years of posting on a forum, I eventually dropped the "happie" and was just bunnie for a time. The "light" was added after several...

Talked to Cuba last night about the stuff that was bugging me, it always turns out better than expected. :) It's always a great feeling when the person your interested in responds to the judgments and threats with "or WHAT??"

Found out last night that an ex friend/new boys exfling has been spreading nasty rumors about new boy and I. I honestly thought I would be more upset about it than I am, but she's really no threat. It's truly like a laughable level of jealousy. Until you realize, she's totally the type of...

Been an interesting couple of days for me.... Went to the Renaissance Festival today with a group of friends, including new fella. We had a wonderful time, of course. I didn't spend near as much money as I thought I would, mostly got beer and food all day. Yesterday we had an interesting...

That's a really good way to look at it, though, IMO. No expectations is very important.