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I'm so sorry about your diagnoses! A friend of mind had the very same cancer, had surgery, and has been fit as a fiddle for the last decade. We live in the future: it's truly incredible what medicine can do. I'm glad your PT went well and helped you feel better: back pain is no joke. I'm...

I'm just a bit sensitive to language, I suppose. And I worry that, since he knows I blog here, he will one day read this and be hurt thinking I thought of him that way, which I don't. No word from Tails since we had our disagreement, just stony silence. I texted him, letting him know that when...

Whoa whoa Magdlyn. "Rape" covers a very specific set of circumstances and I feel it's inappropriate for the situation. I want to be perfectly clear on this point: there was most definitely consent between Tails and I. Just because I didn't enjoy myself doesn't make it rape. I said yes and kept...

I was in SCA for years, until my local chapter got weirdly political and bitchy. We even had a fist fight between two old ladies at the AGM and had to call the cops. People take their anachronisms seriously, I guess. I quit shortly there after: ain't nobody got time for that. I was pretty...

That was definitely a part of what I enjoyed about the movie: it was all new content, with anew nods to old nostalgic stuff. But again, I have a pretty low threshold for deciding a movie was enjoyable. Also, Chris Hemsworth, in glasses. Day-am. I'd climb that man like a tree... as long as he...

For whatever it's worth, I feel like the US could have had it pretty sweet with Obama if the opposition got their heads outta their bums. Canadians (IME) were generally pro-Obama, and were a bit baffled by the whole "lets not allow Obama do anything constructive" thing that seemed to be going...

US politics is bonkers. My friends and I watch whatever debate is being televised and laugh and laugh and laugh as our PM is busy walking in Pride parades, gleefully declaring himself a feminist, unmuzzling government scientists (and FUNDING them, meaning I get to keep my job!), supporting green...

It wouldn't have to be harder. It could be easier, depending on the people involved. People sex differently, is all. I'm not into casual sex, usually (trust issues, yo), but I can definitely see how it could be harder to initiate sex with those nearest and dearest vs unknown people. I see it as...

I've been on a bare handful of dates with people who were quite a bit older than I- 20 years give or take- but we just never clicked right. However, a friend of mine has been with a man 17 years younger than her for the last five years, and they seem very happy together. I think it has more to...

I'm not sure why Ghostbusters is getting all these bad reviews, to be honest. The original Ghostbusters, while a classic, was not a good movie and nobody bats an eye. I thought the new one was pretty enjoyable. It had all my favourite Ghostbusters jokes, some new ones, funny people being funny...

It's been a month. I can hardly believe it, even still. This week has been difficult. Well, all the last few weeks have been difficult. I'm coming to wonder if Tails' and I's relationship will ever recover. It seems to be twisting out of all recognition- what little of it that remains. He...

So... if someone is having trouble in their life, you should stay with them, no matter their treatment of you? In my view, when someone's house is on fire, and you are at risk of going up in flames with it, you are allowed to leave. Even if there is a child stuck inside. Bluebird, I'm so sorry...

I didn't have a very good night. I should probably wait until tomorrow to write any of this, but I'm having trouble processing so maybe writing here will help. Tails came by my place unexpectedly last night. I was initially thrilled but something was... off. I don't know. I thought we'd sit on...

Thanks, Refusnik. I just hate those jealousy feelings. They make me feel small and yucky, especially since I like Kitten. Thankfully, over the last two days or so, the jealousy has morphed into sadness and disappointment- which I can handle much better- but I'm sure it will crop up again. And...

Honestly, the descriptions of all the signs could be applied to me, depending the the day and circumstance. I'm supposed to be a sun sign Aquarius, moon sign Leo, and rising Scorpio- for what that's worth- but when I read any sign description I recognize parts of myself. I think astrology, and...

Thunder in the Mountains sounds like it was an amazing experience. It also sounds super overwhelming! I'm glad you had such a great time with Zen, and that you are so happy in your relationship with him. Reading you gush about him makes me smile every time. Old Wolf... your description of his...

I'm only now starting to catch up on my blog reading. I don't follow many, but I've always appreciated your style. However, I am less likely to comment on blogs with less comments: I figure that the poster probably isn't interested in receiving comments, and maybe everyone knows that except me...

Spork, "Dave is everywhere" reminded me of this: "You want a physicist to speak at your funeral. You want the physicist to talk to your grieving family about the conservation of energy, so they will understand that your energy has not died. You want the physicist to remind your sobbing mother...

Thank you all, again. Yes, this, Spork. This is exactly it. It feels like waves moving in different directions, crashing together. One second I'm furious, the next I feel bleak and gray, the next I think I'd give my right hand to have him back... sometimes it's hard to even know what I'm...

Thank you all, so very much. It means a lot to me that there are people in the world like those on this board. It's been hell. I can't lie. I can't do much of anything right now, actually. Last weekend was a national holiday where I live. Jaeger was heading home from a party with some friends...