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Between your kids, her kids, both of your jobs, and any other family obligations you both have, do you think there is time in either of your lives realistically for more time together alone? I know that as someone who is in a similar situation to your gf (minus the kids, yet), I know both me...

Yes, you can be tested for Herpes, but many healthcare providers can be hesitant since a positive can just show exposure to herpes can mean anything from a cold sore to actual genital herpes. Many doctors prefer to test once their are genital lesions they can test.

Just curious, but what is your husband's reason for not wanting to meet your gf? I mean, even if they are not friends I would think he would at least want to know the people that are important to you in your life. I have met my husband's friends, and even those I am not fond of I have at least...

How long have they been together?

For me it is also a complicated answer. I have friends that are also poly that I can talk openly about which is great. However my family is very conservative Christian and I have no desire to ever tell them, as I know they would not be understanding at all. My parents have actually met my bf...

I also fell for a very close male friend of my husband's. I wasn't even really looking for someone else. Now been in a poly relationship for 2 years

I thought the article was good, but my biggest complaint was I don't generally think of poly in the same class as hooking up like college kids. To me poly is the opposite of promiscuity, and it seemed odd seeing it discussed right next to NSA encounters.

Article has one poly couple that it refers to as well http://www.rollingstone.com/feature/millennial-sexual-revolution-relationships-marriage

This is so accurate.

http://www.charismanews.com/opinion/watchman-on-the-wall/42881-forget-gay-marriage-mainstream-media-now-pushing-polyamory

Maybe we have different definitions, but when I think "social networking" and poly I think sites like this one. When I think "dating" and poly I think of sites like OKC. Different things to me

Oh my metamour would NOT be ok with that. I have started threads recently on here talking about my metamours jealously and resentment issues. So don't think your metamour is the only one that wouldn't be "cool" with a marriage type set up

Well for me I met C first and he and I both had goals of a family. I met H a few months after I started dating C, but we didn't become romantically involved for years. H and I actually became a couple around the time C and I got engaged. For the three of us nothing would have changed if H and...

So I spent a few days thinking about it and decided to tell him over the weekend that we should take a break from intimate time together. It isn't an easy decision for me but I think it is best for now

I have a feeling he has known some of how she has been feeling, maybe not the full degree, but at least more than me. I suspect that he did not want to worry me, and as long as she was trying, and wasn't wanting us to end our relationship he wasn't going to make a big deal out of it to me...

Yeah, I am not sure I want to visit for a while. Or if I want to play at all with her home. I know he could probably visit in the next few weeks but I doubt that would make her any more comfortable. I have been considering not breaking up with him, but perhaps taking a break from our physical...

I agree that the term bi-polar is thrown around way to much. It may be one of the first things people think of with mood disorders, but there are countless other mental illnesses. Or a person could simply be moody/having a bad day/stressed.

I hear you. I think my husband is worried about me being seen as the one that broke them up when/if that happens. Although if they break up I really don't see my friendship with her lasting. Unfortunately I know there is no chance of this person seeking therapy due to being unemployed/lack of...

Sorry, being involved with BDSM the term "play" is generally used to refer to intimate activities not limited to sex.

Oh I told him about our conversation. He doesn't seem to get it as his response is "I will talk to her I am sorry she upset you." I am not upset, I am more concerned about her keeping all of her feelings hidden and appearing to be so against all of this