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So, a status update if you'd like to read it. Honestly, when posting the OP my main goal was to vent. I didn't expect anyone to give me a practical solution to my problem. Sometimes, though, strangers surprise you by understanding you very well. Other times they get what you say so completely...

Of course you are poly, I never claimed otherwise. If, however, you had a DADT arrangement with one of the guys, that would make it not poly in my opinion, because you aren't honest with at least one of them, albeit consensually. But that's just my personal definition and it could be that people...

I guess I felt that a co-habitation environment is pretty intense and might cause drama, when normal roommate friction collides with the beginnings of a relationship. I'll admit to being extremely drama-averse -- I try my best to avoid it, even on the expense of potential good relationships. In...

Hi guys, So I'm new to these forums, but not to poly, and I'd like to vent a little and maybe get your guys' advice and opinion about my situation. I'm sorry in advance for the length. I've been in a relationship with A for going on 9 years, which has been poly from the start. We've always...