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I don't mind our bedroom as much. I think my issue started because it wasn't talked about how to handle where things should go before they just started being placed around.

We have never done much of decorating, due to moving around a lot, due to renting. The gifts are more like symbols of my emotions about her becoming more important. I think if we hadn't just been us for so long, and they hadn't developed this connection so fast, it wouldn't be as bad.

Safe spaces used to be bedroom, work and our bathroom. It definitely is a mix of feeling I won't be primary soon (even though it's not feasible, really) and the clutter. We already have a ton of stuff we have been trying to go through and get rid of. I am in poly hell and haven't been able to...

She spends time here sometimes, but not often. We barely have pictures together. Mostly what is seen is pictures of our kids. I’m glad I’m not alone in this feeling of being overwhelmed with their stuff. I’m a practical and useful gift giver, so most the stuff she gives definitely bugs and feels...

Not really. But if it were one area, it wouldn’t be so bad.

It’s in his office (we work in the same building across the hall), our living room, bedroom and bathroom.

My husband's girlfriend's love language is gift giving. She also loves to paint and craft things. With that said, he has a few different personalized gifts that he doesn't see as a problem displaying. He also has a ton of things from her, like shirts and stuffed animals. I struggle with seeing...

Looking for an extrovert to adopt me. Want to break out and make friends but not very good at it.

Thank you. I will look into the podcast. It sounds like it will be helpful.

You are correct about how I am feeling bad and making myself feel bad for the feelings. I am not seeing a counselor because money is tight. I made the decision to see a psychiatrist instead so I could get the meds to help balance me out. Money is also the reason we don't go out together...

Thank you for your response. I get propositions but all they want is sex and I am tired of that and need more. I don't go out equally mostly due to lack of friends. I'm very introvert so its hard to get out.

This is going to be long and complicated, but I need help figuring things out. Brief synopsis: I've been with my husband for 10 years. I have always been able to date other women, but that was it. We decided to dive deeper into poly, where we could date and be with anyone, around March, 2023. I...