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    Is this potential friend crossing the line?

    "No" doesn't mean ask five minutes later. This is the part that I find the most alarming. She evidently doesn't respect his boundaries and I am quite confident that she didn't mean that her patience would lead to a "rewarding" friendship. It seems like she is perfectly fine with disregarding...
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    Poly: Choice or Predisposition?

    Both Honestly, I think it's both. I remember watching "Dawson's Creek" with my cousins as a child and I couldn't decide whether I would rather date Dawson or Pacey. I remember asking, "Why can't I date them both?" My cousin said, "Because that is a threesome and those are not good!" Of course...
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    Disoriented after being chased and dumped by a "poly-friendly" guy...

    Actually, I really WOULD at least take it into consideration but I've actually been accused of being the opposite. I think I have long had a "dismissive-avoidant attachment" (which I am working on!) and I've been working on it. Also, I can't imagine someone telling me, "Um, you're too...
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    Disoriented after being chased and dumped by a "poly-friendly" guy...

    <3 You've all offered me such wonderful insights. In fact, it now feels like tinfoil hat nonsense after all this time. Thanks! :D Also, I forgot to quote, but no, he definitely wasn't into my friend more than me. I wouldn't care if he was into my friend, as we're quite intimate ourselves, but...
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    Disoriented after being chased and dumped by a "poly-friendly" guy...

    Hello, everyone! This is my first posting that isn't an introduction. To preface, I am in an open relationship with my partner of almost nine years. Our relationship wasn't open for the entire duration and we weren't always "officially" together, but seeing as I am a relationship anarchist, I...
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