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I've been reading through some of the information and links everyone's sent to me. It's been helpful. I've been trying to deconstruct my jealousy. Unfortunately what I've discovered is that if am feeling so many of those negative feelings which makes up jealousy. So I guess I have a lot of work...

Thank you Kevin. I never knew there were so many resources!!

Thank you Pinkpig, for your wonderful advice. I need to get back to practicing mindfulness. I was on my way with this years ago, before the abuse started. I have to get back to the me that I used to be. I didn't realize how lost I became....

FallenAngelina...you are wonderful!! This relationship has brought me an enormous amount of growth in a short period of time. But there is much more work for me to do.

PinkPig, thank you so much for your thoughts and insight. I think I am feeling many of the same feelings you experienced. I've been trying to deconstruct my jealousy. I think I know what my triggers are, and areas to work on. But my biggest question is how? How do I work on them? I don't really...

Galagirl, I appreciate your thoughts and advice on my situation. My marriage was essentially over years ago. It's only recently that I had found the strength to file and get him out. So while in some eyes it seems I have rushed into things, it doesn't feel that way to me. I wasn't out looking to...

Icesong, His other friends do have their other friends. He says he only hopes that if I do have other men in my life that they have my best interest at heart.

Wanting to change Yes, FallenAngelina, I am constantly seeking his reassurance. I don't like that I need that. This is what I want to change, but it's very difficult for me right now. I'm just out of a long abusive marriage. I'm fairly damaged from all that. All I can do is try. So I am trying...

Thanks Everyone's comments have been helpful, and giving me lots to think about. I did talk more with him about this yesterday. I told him I was trying hard to get past my insecurities. He asked me how I was doing that, and I told him I was seeking advice of others about the topic. His reaction...

Thank you. Thank you. That site does have a lot of information.

I've fallen in love with a man who is poly. He told me right from the start this is how he lives his life. I didn't expect to fall for him as hard as I have. It's been 5 months. It's a long distance relationship. Recently he visited me and we had a glorious time, and I fell even deeper in love...