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I like your thoughts. There are good folks out there that desire relationships. If sex becomes part of it, ok. If not, ok.

When we were swinging we focused on folks that wanted “friends, in and out of the bedroom”. We found that as long as sex was involved, all was good. But just a fun trip or something, they didn’t have time. This, I gravitated towards poly. I am here to stay. We both felt used. It took my wife a...

I never got bored with my wife. Just had love for another as well. It seems boredom would be a weak base to begin.

Welcome. As a poly husband, I appreciate your willingness to join this group. I wish you the best as you search.

Well Sir, sometimes it just sucks. A poly breakup is no different then a mono one. Search away and ask questions. Folks here are very open.

Welcome. Well, talk is good. You need to decide what you want and what you may have to give up. It could cost the loss of your husband. You were honest at the start. Sadly, no discussion followed.

Hello. Break ups are painful regardless of the why. I commend you for listening to your gut. Follow your gut. As Evie said, make it about you. Hopefully, that minimizes the threat they feel as well as the blame. Own your thought and actions. Best wishes!

Welcome to you both. You have discovered what we did. After experience in the LS, having a poly partner is amazing. Just keep the talking moving.

Welcome. Sounds like you need to talk. Feeling left out is not unusual when a partner is with another. How it is managed is what is important. Honesty is needed. Understanding as well. You also have a responsibility to do what you can to make her feel important to you. You can only create...

Scheduling phone calls gets easier as you go. It is generally nicer talking to one partner without the other around. We do a mixture. It is important to discuss all of your goals and expectations on calls. Hopefully, she will be open and listen to what you would like. In like manner, you...

It is always important to operationally define our terms. This is especially important when my wife and I talk about things, then I go and discuss same with Ewe. Or, if the three of us are together.

Welcome. Poly you takes work. It is serious and far beyond a fwb. That said, it can fall on a continuum. In our case, we all put effort in to make it work.

Howdy and welcome to the group. Talk. Talk about your individual wants, goals and desires. Be open and honest. Then talk some more.

Welcome. I talk to my wife and girlfriend. I have two friends that I can talk to about poly. Girlfriend has two she can talk to. My wife has one. This group has been a great place to learn as well as vent.

His priority should be the test to minimize giving anything to you. It’s all about the sales pitch.

Welcome. It sound like you are moving in a positive direction. Thanks for the upbeat news.

Well, I have been advised I should edit. As I can not get that to work, I will verbalize a correction. I hope that your nieces are not involved. That said. Through this group, you will find a number of view and varied approaches to poly. That that information that will enhance your experience...

In the end, it is he that must search for his solution. That is the only way for his buy in. You may give him information, but he is the one that will decide if he will use it.

Howdy. It is great that you have talked this through. Keep talking. That is the main thing that will help you navigate this and preserve your relationship. Be open. This is a good group. You will discover many nieces. Take that which will help.

Howdy and welcome. Discretion, yup it can be interesting. Used to be GF was 1000 miles away. Now 15. It is awesome-but. We hold hands in some places, others not. I live two lives. Each lady knows and are friends. They also give the other space. It is hard to say there is one way. Depends on...