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Have many conversations with your partner. I have one relationship outside my married. I am in the process of moving her from 1000 miles away to 15. She and spouse get along well. I need to ensure spouse that she will not be replaced. That’s on me. Many conversations have occurred. We need to...

Welcome. There are many different paths to choose in Poly. Enjoy your stops here a d jump in.

Our approach is that my relationship with my wife remains between us as a couple. In like manner, my relationship with my Girlfriend (Ewe) is also between EWe and I. Our relationships are stand alone. I will take off for about a week a month with Ewe. She is moving close so it will now be 3...

It is important the the two of you talk. He has a responsibility to communicate to you and reassure his desire for you. You also need to be receptive of it. Don’t shut him out. It’s hard. My wife struggles at times with my other relationship. Soon to be 3 days a week when she moves nearby...

Howdy and welcome to the group. Poly is interesting. It take a great deal of work and commitment from all parties. Read read read. Then do lots of talking. I recommend talk over text. Many misunderstandings can be avoided. If you have questions, ask away. Best wishes.

Welcome. Sorry to see all that you have dealt with. It sounds like you have done a good job in handling this. A breakup is hard, the first one or the third. As far as your son, you prioritized him. Your ex will likely never change. His issues will continue. This group is very open. It’s a good...

You own it. Step one. When needed to talked to Joe about sex with John - step two. We all screw up. Some don’t recover. You appear to have evaluated things well. Carry on.

I miss Pounds Hollow Camping. Familiar with your area.

Welcome. Yes I agree that conversation is important. That first one can be interesting. This forum is a great resource. Best wishes in your efforts.

Spell check attack. 3-if there is sex outside our V, condones are used.

Background: I am the pivot with a wife and girlfriend. We keep it simple. 1-Don’t be stupid. 2-clear communication and 3-if outside is, conforms are used. in society we have all the laws on the books to cover everything one way or another. But we keep making more and it gets more confusing...

Memories of my first GFs (Teach) husband. If we followed his rules we were wrong. He broke rules he set. Wanted to know everything. Treated teach like she was nothing. Very toxic.

It is still called jealousy. It comes in many forms and is just part of the deal. We all deal with it at some time or another. Good book - Jealousy Workbook by Kathy Labriola the three of us have gone through it. It has been very helpful. If is for open relationships but applies to all.

Another misplaced Cheaderhead. 👍. My wife has had issues with guys willing to communicate. She has done the Tinder thing with fair success. Followup from the other side is poor.

Welcome. It sounds like you two are solid. All marriages have struggles and many don’t survive. Hopefully, the two of you can do some reading and lots of talking. Then if both are good with it, fine. Small steps.

Welcome. Sorry about your miscarriage. My wife’s was 31 yrs ago, it still impacts me. I like what Gala said. I don’t see him as wanting responsibility. If that is so, you have some decisions to make. What do you want for YOU. What do you want to do to have that. Start there. Best Wishes.

Welcome. Not sure about the game. If it leads to truthful discussion, awesome. How about just sit down and talk. Open dialogue. Don’t talk over each other. Find a talking pen. Whoever is holding the pen talks, when done pass it to the other. Talk about what you miss with each other as well...

Welcome. Fear is not a bad thing. Just don’t let it hold you back. As already said, read, read, read. This is a great bunch. Best wishes in your search.

Howdy and welcome. Halfway off grid in TX, travel to MN for more off grid cabin. Lurk or jump in. There is much here for all.

Welcome. My wife has had success on Tinder. Best wishes.