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    Very new to all of this and struggling

    Things are getting better. I would have never in my younger years thought I would be in an open relationship ever. I also would have never considered that I would be ok with any partner of mine sleeping with someone else. Its very interested how we evolve and grow as individuals. I do struggle...
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    Open relationship with pick up artist

    Erm... It doesn't sound much like a healthy relationship. Poly issues aside. I know it can be hard to thoroughly flush out an issue online because of the complex emotions and situations leading to it, but from what I hear he sounds selfish and like his needs are the forefront of what matters to...
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    And then things changed....

    I have a guy from my past , a few actually, that could get my head spinning in a nano second. I also tend to hold fast to feelings forever so if they were ever there they can be rekindled immediately. I am also incredibly new at poly myself so may not have the best reply/advice. Why not take...
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    Very new to all of this and struggling

    I think its hard to describe so much in a short post. We do have a lot going for us, I was just mainly listing the background issues. I love and adore him. The reason I thought poly might work for us is I am interested in trying dating around to take the pressure off of one partner to meet all...
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    Very new to all of this and struggling

    I am the one that wanted to be poly. It in some ways was to fix an un-fixable problem. The problem of current lack of time. I did not cheat on him. We had at that point already pre agreed it was ok for either of us to sleep with other people. His feelings of betrayal came from feeling jealous...
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    Very new to all of this and struggling

    Thanks you for that. It was a really nice thing to read. I need to remind myself of that when I am feeling down.
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    Very new to all of this and struggling

    I guess no one has any support or stories about how they adjusted from mono to poly.
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    Very new to all of this and struggling

    I don't even know where to start. I am older than my partner and on certain levels our relationship has not been functioning correctly for a while. Over the course of several long and honest conversations I thought polyamory may be a solution and something we should try. The main issues between...
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