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What happened: what I ment in that statement was that I needed her to stay away from me. I needed time to be alone and think. Not from dh. I told both of them that their relationship was theirs and they were responsible for it. As far as her and I were considered we were still friends but...

So.. It has been a bit since I posted. Since then I have figured out that what dh and I had with gf was not a triad but a V with him in the middle. I finally voiced to her what my problems with this were/are. The idea going in was that we were going to be a triad, she was more attracted to me...

The closest therapist is in Boston, 45 min away. We are not in the position financially to be able to pay for one. I have separated myself away from both of them. He is on the road and she is sick. She is down here. I can't send her upstairs to take care of her children by herself with her being...

I read that last night. It makes complete sense. It fit completely. This has been hard. Very hard. I've come to realize a lot about myself this past few weeks. I do like arrangements like this. I just don't like to be completely ignored.

If not being able to handle the NRE is not being ok with being ignored then yes you are very much right about me not being able to handle it. I'm not just locked out of his NRE with her but everything with him. Me saying I wanted a bf was not me making a threat. I am not having ANY needs being...

We have admitted that it's issues between the two of us. I can understand that sex might not happen as frequently, but I didn't expect to be shut out completely. It's not how we would like it to be. I understand the treatment isn't always going to be equal, but I'm not getting anything. Dh and I...

I posted a while back about being in a relationship with my gf and dh. Well, things have only gone downhill. I gave them permission to have sex without me. I was happy for them. In the end though, I have been being ignored by dh for the past few weeks, while he and gf have continued to have sex...

With gf, dh and I fluid bonding wasn't even a question. We had all been tested and were clean so it wasn't a second thought. We are all fluid bonding.

Hello and welcome.

All I can offer is hugs. It takes time to get over any relationship. If it hurts to see her, I would probably suggest she not come over for awhile. I know I wouldn't want to see my ex.

i don't know who ur responding to. But I know with what I went through it can be a bit painful to let go specially coming out of the mono mindset

yes we are going to work through it. They are allowed to have sex without me and her and I are allowed. I however move ALOT slower than my husband does. We snuggle and talk all the time, but as of right now we have not done anything sexual.when the three if us are in bed, it's not just him...

thank you i do believe that all relationships take work. I think being in a poly relationship is alittle more mostly because dh and I have been mono for so long and I'm not used to dealing with insecurity in our relationship. i have them both not for sex reasons but because I didn't...

See that is how I am with dh. Gf and I havnt done anything sexually without dh yet so we ll see if that happens. To top all of this off this is my first sexual relationship with a female without dh around. it is about connecting with him. I know when he ejaculates I have done my job as a...

thank you and welcome. I have made a poly group on fb for polies to talk freely. https://www.facebook.com/groups/modernvillage/

we are. Thank you.

Thank you for your constructive input. I do want to continue this triad. I care for her a lot and love him. I know there is four relationships here, him and me, him and her, her and me, and the three of us. From talking I see that it is just me being insecure, what tips do you have for me...