Trying not to be
I figured I needed to do that. I'm having a hard time with it. I am trying not to project our issues and I ask and talk to her about her feelings daily. We started out as good friends first. Any issues we (dh and I) have are not in any way her fault. They are ours.
The sex...
Re: new and confused
Ok so at this point I guess my question is how do I get past my upset. How do I get past my insecurities.So we can move on to have a meaningful relationship?
re: new and confused
Thank you for responding. My only worry (stems maybe from insecurity) that is because they are having sex that he isn't going to want to have sex with me anymore. I guess I worry about being replaced as his sexual partner.
Ok alittle background on our situation.
Dh and I have been married and in a mono relationship for 9 years. We have had our up and downs. We have had threesomes over the past 9 years though we have specifically been mono for the last 5. We have talked off and on about having a "sister wife" (I...
I am part of a triad. Or beginning of one. There is my husband, our girlfriend and myself. We just made it the three of us together two weeks ago so we are looking for advice and wisdom from people much more experienced than us.