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Thanks, I'll take a look, sounds interesting. In my limited understanding addiction is a brain disorder. In my view whether the term "sex addiction" is or isn't classified as an addiction in the classic sense is irrelevant. In the end the problem, if it is a problem, has to be defined by the...

I'm guessing this post could be a powder keg, I hope its not because its also my story and has been a real struggle of me. I want to say right upfront that I'm not here to judge, because I've asked myself those questions many times, "have I got an addiction problem" Is my desire normal, what...

Every emotion starts with a thought. So once I understand that I'm not my thoughts, and I have the thoughts of jealousy I can reject feeling jealous because I'm not a jealous person. When the thought of jealousy enters my mind I reject it because one of the core values I shared earlier was "dont...

Karen Nice to connect with you. Most people in the western world live out if their mind, many people have what’s called “busy mind syndrome” where there mind doesn’t stop talking. You are not your thoughts. Eg. if you have an evil thought does that make you an evil person, of course not, if I...

It's been a long beautiful road for us since we became Poly some 24 + years ago. There have been some huge mistakes, lots of pain and some wonderful experiences. During this journey we have learned many great lessons and gathered some hugely beneficial tools that I'd like to share. Not...

Thanks for your honesty. Like all of us we have been brainwashed by a worldly system that doesn't work for the masses. To build a new house one first has to demolish the old one. Remember you are not your thoughts. Your thoughts unless renewed and transformed with conform to the values within...

I started looking for a more spiritual dynamic in my sexual experience several years ago and was fortunate to connect with a local Tantric Healer. Over the period of the next 20 weeks, 1 session a week it started becoming real clear of the high levels of sexual anxiety in my life. My teacher...

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Your quite correct the Bible says very little about sex, the problem isn't the Bible its religion.

As I mentioned in my Introduction I have been married for 41 years , 24 years open. As a person who has a living faith and is highly sexual Iv'e struggled to understand the Biblical dynamics on sexuality. In the past 10 years I have read many great books on the subject, the best being "Sexual...

Hi everybody So pleased to be here. We have been married for the past 41 years, Open for the past 24. My wife in bi and currently has a girl friend who is often at our place. I currently have a 32 year old Japanese girlfriend, who lives out of town but see each other usually twice a week. I...

Great story, we've been doing this 30 years, feel free to PM me Terry

Thanks Kevin Happy New Year to you :)

Hi Everybody I am a 62 year young male that has been in an Open Marriage for 38 years. Love my wife more each day, couldn't imagine life without her, and crazy in love with my new 40 year old girl friend. I have worked as a family Therapist for the past 26 years and love it. I am a trained...