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I'm not trying to be rude or anything, but... I would recommend doing a search for unicorn hunting and reading the threads/advice associated with that. It's usually geared towards a hetero couple seeking a bi woman "to share," but likely is applicable here, as well. The gist of you what you...

Thank you for a resource that explains my relationship with Hubby perfectly. 😁

I often find my physical attraction for my husband waning, for a variety of reasons. It is by far the biggest issue in our relationship. For me? I make an effort to say yes every time he initiates UNLESS I have a reason other than "I'm not in the mood." Because, honestly, I'm hardly ever in the...

I honestly think you're making a common newbie mistake - letting your established partner dictate how your new relationship grows. Does Joe consent to polyamory or not? Does John consent to Joe making decisions about John's sex life? Because that's what's happening. You and John are letting a...

Besides the personal space/finance issues that others have already covered... Why are you all moving in if you haven't already discussed all the concerns? Have you done sleepovers before? If so, did you feel left out during them? If so, why would you consent to doing that every day? How long...

I've lost around 30 pounds in just over 4 months, folks! So excited. Hubby is trying to join me in the healthy choices camp, but he has exactly zero self control. He's an all or nothing guy while I'm a "one bite of that candy bar is better than none" kinda gal. Boy lost 20 pounds a few years ago...

Ugh, yeah. Hopefully the bluntness and stepping back from that dynamic helps him realize that he was taking it/you for granted when he should have been carving out space for you. I'm glad you have other support during rough relationship times too! That's invaluable.

I'm sorry date day didn't go as expected. I personally would be really irritated about the dinner break in particular. There is no reason one can't communicate in advance to a live in partner "I'm not available for dinner that day."

Ugh, vacation a couple of weeks ago. I'm still exhausted from it. Hubby and I argued a bit when we got back. He's slipped into some old patterns that had really killed our sex life/turned me off. Then he blames himself for us not having sex but for all the wrong reasons (latches onto his own...

It feels to me on reading this that you are more focused on the "play" aspect (sex and/or bdsm) which isn't necessarily polyamory - more sexually open/swinger-ish depending on agreements. She seems to be more focused on the fully open/polyamorous idea where she (and you) get to have more...

I had an old friend reach out last week. Well, we flirted/had a borderline affair (on his end - Hubby knew about everything except the extent that friend's wife was not on board). Anyway, Hubby and I used to have a lot of swinger friends. Ones that were more into FWB over casual swapping, which...

For future context, by hot as hell I meant temperature. Not sexy. Lol it was over 110 the days I was there! Unheard of for the PNW area I'm in.

As others have mentioned... If you decide to branch out and actually represent something that isn't normally shown (aka anything other than triads or huge networks of kinky, sexually open people who are also polyamorous) then I'd be open to participating.

You know I kind of skipped over this part too. I'm in the camp of "actively trying to conceive/parenting infants or toddlers" not being the best time to open up for the first time unless you are REALLY solid and have discussed literally every possible scenario you (and the internet) can come up...

Okay. 3 days with Boy and it was hot as hell. We had a good time though. I video chatted with LG every day. 😆 Next up... Weekend with Hubby! So excited. I need to plan snacks and try on my new lingerie and do all the fun things! Also need to make sure I have easy meals for Boy and LG for the...

Are you willing to risk it? Supporting a pregnant partner, raising kids, all of the things that go into that... That's really emotional for many people. What will YOU do if you get pregnant, find out it's boyfriend's, then husband realizes he just CAN'T. He can't look at the little face that...

Hubby considers himself heteroflexible. 99% straight but every once in a while there's a guy that he is sexually drawn to. And he's very comfortable with incidental contact that comes with a threesome with another guy. Lol

Had the best father's day! Hubby and I have very set traditions for mother's day (same activity, different locations every year), but father's day is just whatever activity we want with no real theme other than it's something super fun for the whole family and obviously something Hubby is...

Damn. You're right. I'll work on that. 😉

Gross. If you break up, then you break up. Why are you trying to get someone back if the relationship is dysfunctional? Sure, if time passes and circumstances change then relationships can work between exes but immediately after? Why break up in the first place?