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Yes-- It was both. My mom and I had a very complicated relationship. It was about physical abuse that happened between my mom and dad, I don't know too much about it and don't think it's a great idea for me to dig deeper at this time, or maybe ever. It was also, yes, ways in which she was...

Kevin, thank, you so much for your thoughtful reply, for your compassion, and for your sympathy. Reading your message brought me to a couple of tears. If I had to guess, when all of this first started they did not understand the nature of grief, and I think that really played into all of this...

This is so helpful. Thank you, truly, for taking the time to reply. <3 I think what has been so mind-boggling has been trying to grapple with how little control I have over most things-- people die, relationships end, things change. Which was always true, but has been massively highlighted by...

Right. That's a great question. Hahah. If I could ask anything, it would be to go back in time and have it be just Andrew and I. If I lived in a vacuum, I would need Andrew to stop seeing Quinn romantically for now, indefinitely. I also need to stop seeing Quinn romantically, and want us to just...

Hello! I'm looking for advice on a complicated poly situation colliding with a major life crisis. **CW loss, and general mentions of abuse and trauma The people are me (26, cis-woman), Andrew (my NP, 28, cis-man/genderqueer) and Quinn (26, nonbinary). I am seeing a therapist, and I'm already...

putting a status so that people know i'm a person!