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    I think I am causing everyone pain

    breathemusic, because I love him and I loved our relationship and I would not show him the way when he is not in his own country or environment, not having close friends around. I am the privileged person in this situation. All of his stuff for making music is in the house, he wants to make new...
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    I think I am causing everyone pain

    reflections I got to the no contact thing. It really cannot be otherwise. I had veeery difficult feelings after I saw his ex masturbating videos that he replied just with "can't see blood on you, just blood on the dildo" (she was menstruating). That's like the only thing I saw. It could have...
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    I think I am causing everyone pain

    Wow, people... I know I did something really wrong. I had to go to get stuff from my house where A is staying while we are separating... We made it so he would not be there when I'm there. His skype was open and... I looked. Nudes, shots from virtual sex with this new girl (that he treats the...
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    Alot of pressure. Post divorce. Need advice.

    Hela, I am sorry for your divorce and everything you are going through. I am going through a divorce and a breakup myself and it is really tough. I share a lot of the opinions of the other people who have commented. Some thoughts that I have on your struggles with Loki: Maybe I am being...
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    I think I am causing everyone pain

    Dear forumers, Once again you are super sweet and kind, so really thank you! <3 It is a really difficult time for me. GalaGirl is once again on point. I don't think though that he married me only for the visa. I mean, it's nice to have it and we did it to be able to be together longer...
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    I think I am causing everyone pain

    What happened Thanks to everyone who commented on my story, especially to Galagirl for this priceless list of therapists! I thought I would like to update you on my story, since the people who commented took time to read it and give advice on it, some of which was super good and really...
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    I think I am causing everyone pain

    Thank you so much for all the advice and especially for the kind words. I really needed it all and it helped me order things in my head a bit. To the people who are advising me to see a therapist or turn to professional help - I abstain from this in this case because in my country things...
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    I think I am causing everyone pain

    Hey, people! I am turning to this forum as somehow last resort. I am in pain and confusion. I had a two year relationship with an incarcerated person, which drained me both physically and emotionally. It was full of gaslighting and emotional abuse that I recognized only much later. I had a...
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