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  1. ElkSun

    Been living as poly for 3.5 yrs, in need of outside perspective and encouragment

    Kind of a long post... Partly to vent, but also to gain some outside perspective and maybe some encouragement from you all. My wife and I have been married for 13 years, living as polyamorous for 3.5 years. Our structure is an MFM V, with her at the axis. She has a good relationship with her...
  2. ElkSun

    Hello there - poly TN triad here

    Hello from a V in Nashville. We did attend a meetup a couple of times, but that particular one just wasn't our scene so much. Since then we have met and befriended other poly people in the area. There are more poly people here in Nashville than one might think, and it's only growing.
  3. ElkSun

    Myers Briggs and polyamory.

    I do think it has bearing. I'm INFJ, but the 'J' (judging) is at 1%, super tiny margin from being INFP.
  4. ElkSun

    (How) does marriage work with non-hierarchical poly??

    I won't say it's impossible to be married and non-hierarchical, because humans are individually unique and can be damn interesting and innovative. That said, I guess it depends on how one defines 'hierarchy' and if it is distinct (but not necessarily exclusive) from 'priorities', emotions or...
  5. ElkSun

    Poly-Dating: How to meet like-minded people

    We have met almost everyone through OKCupid. It's nice because you can limit your interactions to only those who are poly or poly-friendly. I have mingled with one poly community in our area. There were lots of people with varying personalities, intentions, gossip cliques, and big potential for...
  6. ElkSun

    Looking for good survey data

    I'm curious about statistics on existing polyamorous relationships, especially in regard to structure, gender of participants, ages, interests/fetishes, individual level of fulfillment/happiness. I've looked at a couple of surveys and found them not so comprehensive or just lacking many...
  7. ElkSun

    Nashville, TN

    Part of it has to do with us guys sharing a lot of common ground. We both have low-key, chilled personalities and aren't particularly egotistical. We're both musicians, and are both married to poly ladies. We bonded well over time, especially the time we spent helping each other rebuild a...
  8. ElkSun

    Nashville, TN

    Greetings everyone. Polyamory has been an interesting and rewarding journey for me (and us) so far. Me, my wife of thirteen years, and her other male partner are in a good V relationship, and have been for about two years. He is also married to a poly woman and they live about 45 minutes...
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