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  1. PurpleSun

    When do you tell someone you are interested in that you are poly?

    Nah, they wouldn't be attached like that after one date most likely, you're right. I just bring up the big stuff right away, so that if we're not a match, we can each move along and not waste each other's time, and maybe even be friends if we get along otherwise.
  2. PurpleSun

    When do you tell someone you are interested in that you are poly?

    I bring it up right away. I could never have a monogamous relationship, and it would be a complete waste of time for me to get involved with someone who isn't also poly. I screen for that just like I screen for other big stuff like religion (I'm an atheist), kids (I'm childfree), closets...
  3. PurpleSun

    not-quite-poly: lovers & friends w/ benefits

    I see this is an old thread... But I'm new and I'd like to chime in. I just got out of a situation in June with a woman who was only open because her wife was much older than she was, and they were no longer sexually compatible. I am poly, as in the traditional definition-- meaning I have...
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