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    Guidelines & Boundaries vs. Rules: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Anything that someone says to my wife or I, they effectively say to both of us. Anyone that one of us dates, the other meets by the 3rd date to make sure we all get along well before things get serious. My wife and I don't do anything with anyone else that could potentially result in pregnancy...
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    When the kids are not taking poly well...

    This article would support that: http://polyinthemedia.blogspot.com/2009/12/poly-and-unitarian-universalist-church.html I was involved with a UU group on campus as a college student and found them to be a nice cuddly bunch, and while the youth minister was great, she recommended against being...
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    Ethics in Poly/Mono dating.

    If someone is in a closed relationship, monogamous or otherwise, I wouldn't pursue them. I need to know that whatever partner(s) the person has are ok with me seeing them, and preferably I'd like to gain new friends via metamours. If it seems like they're about to split from their current...
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    southern turtle

    My wife Ginko and I have been together for ~4.5 years, having discussed polyamory since the first date. For ~the past year we've been actively seeing people, her having a boyfriend of about a year now, myself a girlfriend since last October. We all get along well, stay fairly busy, and at this...
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    New Poly - Feel like our relationship has ended

    That sounds much healthier. My general goal is that, if anything, hot sexy time between a primary couple should increase as they venture out into other relationships.
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    is there such a thing as too much sex?

    If performance is not an issue and you're enjoying yourself, then as others mention, the women may need help to alter their perception that not getting you to ejaculate is a sign of failure. As a male that used to be into Taoist non-ejaculatory techniques, I find the whole experience of sex...
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    Cuddle Parties?

    If I didn't know many people I could be cuddly with, I'd be glad to have access to something like this, as touch is so important. Luckily I have quite a few people I'm close to on a day to day basis, so the idea of cuddling with strangers doesn't sound very appealing. It just depends on how...
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