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Honestly, I think generational labels are helpful taxonomy and little else. Being a millennial means I can safely assume some things about them that I’d never assume about a boomer or alpha, (I’m still not going to treat anyone differently based on assumptions cuz I’m not a dick hole) but it...

Perspective is a hell of a drug, but probably my favorite one.

Sure! I’ll pick up if there’s a pass. A big game wherein you purchase a slight chance to win an enormous amount of clay cookware.

I solemnly swear to not mock the tourists. I solemnly swear to not mock the tourists. I slocmentl sear to not mock the torusit. I slomently swear to not mock the troustj. I sil... I'll do my best.

Idk, I usually find when people are real cocksure of themselves that they're too smart for me to understand something, I'm disappointed to find out that keeping the information from me was the smartest part of the play. I'm happy to play in the dirt with the dumb-dumbs than pretend to not...

Does craigslist redirect here?

Is this like The Secret where you just put things out into the universe in order to manifest them in your life? I want one too, for anyone fulfilling @Bubbly09's wish!

I have some time on my hands if this becomes something that just needs some effort.

My guy, raven's are not nocturnal and I genuinely do not understand what is "nerdy" about a haven except that some folk might not know the word. @KND you want a turn? You've been putting in guesses!

I thought I responded to this, but I suppose I never hit send. I don't agree with the idea that a mental health diagnosis should allow for a lower standard of behavior. So she has ADHD. What does that have to do with if she's a good parent? She can have one and be the other and while one may...

Can you be more specific? If I don't understand what you mean by "share her," I can't say she must know either, which I would also be very shy about agreeing to. Is she happy with this arrangement? Are you? Do you need to address this before adding something to the relationship? It sounds like...

Is he ok admitting that his feelings represent a double standard? Like, I get that wanting to be ok with something and actually feeling it are two different things, but like this is pretty standard toxic patriarchy at play and really ought to be addressed with therapy, not dating. So... if he's...

I thought the old boundaries were good. They need to be respected better, but the boundaries themselves or how you set them were not the problem. YOUR behavior here has not been the problem. However, if your feelings of security are dependent on other people's behavior, it might be time to...

Can you prove this one? I know "women are more emotional than men" is something that is frequently stated, but i'm gonna go ahead and ask you to please link me to a study or an article that makes this claim and then provides proof to back it up because I do not believe this initial premise is...

Nah, you can't just say "sorry nobody got it!" and try again. You must at the VERY least give us the answer in order to keep your turn. Difficulty is relative and until I can compare the clue to the answer, I'm not sure I agree that it was too hard to complete, and I certainly don't agree that...

Most folk, if they’ve heard of any, know the Jersey Devil by name at least, but there’s been a new face in the East coast cryptozoological circles: Queer Waldo! If you see Queer Waldo, don’t be afraid! Queer Waldo is very friendly and carries stickers to commemorate your long quest’s ultimate...

Seconded. The best of intentions often lead to undesirable outcomes. Even if you both WANT this to lead to better, more comfortable interactions doesn’t necessarily mean that this is the best way of achieving your actual goals.

Sorry about that. I feel like we tend to both be very thorough in our analysis of a situation (for they tend to be complicated and nuanced), and bedside manner suffers because of it. Also, we suffer a lot of fools who think polyamory is a shortcut to threesomes. Preparing people ahead of time...

Hiiiiii! We love a community! Welcome! Jealousy and insecurity in non-monogamous relationships are, if you ask me, far easier to navigate than in monogamous relationships, specifically because we get to start from a place of “I can never be the be-all, end-all for my partner and that’s ok...

Whenever I’m confronted with something that I know has an expiration date - like New Relationship Energy - I try and spend less energy on “fixing” the situation and more on just keeping my head down and getting through it; the bigness of the problems will fade on their own, I just need to watch...