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  1. FeralGeek

    Hurdy Gurdy

    The Last Letter Game seems to be a hit, so maybe this will stimulate some activity. Hurdy Gurdy is a guessing game much like 20 questions, except the answer must be a two-word phrase that rhymes. For example, I give the clue “a young cat in love” and wait for the first person to guess “smitten...
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    Am I being cruel? I was polybombed.

    Please prioritize your mental health, even consider a short-term anti-depressant (if you feel that’s appropriate after discussing it with your favorite licensed medical professional), but mental health IS health, and you’ll be making the best choices if you’re in your best place.
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    Bad news?

    Lots of therapy, introspection, patience, and empathy? Maybe that answer is cheating. I have some opinions about what’s going on under the hood, but really it just sounds like you’re not on the same page. At least one of you is not being as honest as necessary to move forward, but whether...
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    Help for the union

    You’re doing great. It’s gotta be so so hard, but you’re doing everything right.
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    Am I being cruel? I was polybombed.

    this. There’s very little polyamory in this situation, mostly just grief and trauma.
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    Second Try at Dating and Scared

    Also, practice dates? Role play a date platonically. I volunteer as tribute.
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    Second Try at Dating and Scared

    The greatest advice against the fear of not being someone people want to be around is, “would you want to hang out with you?” Idk where you’re at but rest assured that the dating “game” is a lie that emotionally ignorant people pretend is how relationships work. You can’t be “good” at it. Just...
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    Time to Take a Leap

    I like therapy (But read it like “I like turtles”)
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    What is everyone’s sexual preference?

    Can only be “too” anything if it’s bad. Doesn’t sound like you’re having a bad time :)
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    Dashcams aren't for filming the scenery

    Seems like it went from being intended to be more of a documentary piece and ended up becoming much more of an artistic interpretation of events.
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    Dashcams aren't for filming the scenery

    Much more thoughtful and respectful than I was initially expecting. Might actually look into giving it a watch.
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    Secrets and Eggshells

    "She deserves to be more than a secret!" No no, I understand that you're joking, my dearly beloved cousin, but let me be shaken for a moment by your bumble bee zinger. Obviously you know my family and know that there are some things my parents and I will never agree on and simply keep those...
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    35-year-old female seeking poly/asexual relationship with M or F

    Sent a sheepish DM with my Discord deets
  14. FeralGeek

    Struggling in monotonous relationship

    I denied my own desires to live that truth and attempted classic monogamy for most of my life to, at best, middling effect. I think regret is perhaps too strong a word, but I certainly would have rather spent more effort earlier to make my life look like how I wanted it to, instead of figuring...
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    What is everyone’s sexual preference?

    Hm, I’m pansexual, but pretty heteroromantic. I’m open to being surprised, maybe I just haven’t met the right guy yet, but that’s been my experience so far.
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    Friends and maybe...

    *a bearded twinky of a man leans across the bar, elbow on the beer-stained wood, chin in one manicured, black-nailed hand* O HAI *he intoned, somberly* Whatcha readin these days? Any good smut? Heard Confessions of a Midwest Princess yet?
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    Study on Sexual Satisfaction & Stigma in CNM and Kink Communities

    I did the thing, idk if you’re still collecting data.
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    Few people around?

    Just discovered the site and am frankly enamored with the idea of such a friendly community on an old-school forum such as this! Let’s get it this party started up again! Also, hiiiii /wave
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    What is everyone’s sexual preference?

    Paaaaan, baby, pan!
  20. FeralGeek

    Primary Partner Jealousy

    OP tried pretty hard to be clear on the lack of details, so I tried not to presume, but i also picked a vibe of looking for validation for wanting out. Sorry if that’s way off and unhelpful, but uncomfortable truths are often more useful than pretty advice and I agree with Tinwen here.
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