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I'm sorry you've had to go through what you've been through lately. Stalkers are scary serious business. I had one when I was 16 and just had to relive the experience around Thanksgiving because one of my disabled consumers was going through something similar. His girlfriend stalked him, got him...

A few months back, Wendigo and I were chatting over Skype late at night (before we were employed full time). He was drunk and horny and I was just horny, so I started teasing him, forgetting that he was also trying to run an RP scene on an online game he moderates. I ended up getting called by...

My first week on OKCupid, Wendigo's wife, Pretty Lady's cousin messaged me asking if I knew her. . . . I finally had to respond that I did because I had put that she's one of my favorite authors, but it was really awkward because I do mention having a husband and boyfriend in my profile and they...

Trust is something that relies on faith, at least where I'm concerned. At this point, knowing will not change anything. Trust is something that you do. This is one situation where fake it til you make it works.

I had a message from a guy last night asking if I was interested in a sweet submissive to lap at my feet. He indicated he had a foot fetish in his opener. - deleted, not worth a response. I've only had men viewing my OkCupid profile lately, even though I've got it set to only looking for...

So tired lately. I think it has to do with the infection in my leg.

I've been chatting regularly with one guy on OKCupid, though not actually on OKCupid. He and I met there and I realized that he was the same guy Runic Wolf's ex was casually dating. We met him in October when he came to our October poly event. She and I are still close and we went to her house...

Runic Wolf's ex just enjoys dating, meeting new and interesting people, and doesn't have the expectation that it will lead to anything more. Her husband recently had brain surgery and her second "serious" relationship is long distance. She enjoys going out to dinner, being treated occasionally...

Honestly, I never expect anyone to reply on OKCupid, even those who say they respond frequently.

Absolutely this. I've been getting messages from a guy in his 50's who is looking to be someone's sugar daddy or daddy depending on the message. Runic Wolf's ex is getting the same exact messages. He lives somewhere in our area and sounds incredibly desperate. Especially since he puts his phone...

Not doing so good tonight, nothing poly related, but it's been a stressful week starting with having to remove one of my consumers from an abusive situation and making sure he got a restraining order and ending in my blood test results coming back with allergies indicated for wheat, corn, and...

So today I got this beauty: "hello there how are u miss"

He's a pretty cool guy, but definitely just in my "I'd like to be friends" category.

I have only received one well thoughout message on OK Cupid. The rest were from guys assuming that because I state I have a boyfriend and a husband and am looking for FEMALES that I want to have a gang bang or orgy. I've had several such requests in the month and a half that I've been on that...

I'm sorry that you're husband is pressuring you to do something you're uncomfortable with. Have you two tried therapy to help him understand that you just can't give him that?

My husband's FWB seems to feel uncomfortable about sleeping with a married man for one reason or another and told him last night she felt "naughty" for showing up at our house randomly for sex last night while I was home. (Mind you, he actually invited her over on Saturday when I wasn't, but she...

As I said before, I have a boyfriend who is black. My sisters have both dated black men and my niece is bi-racial. My youngest sister is engaged to a black man, so yes, I have experience talking with other races about their relationships. My middle sister dated a black man (who identified as...

CDM - I'm not sure that the OP is here seeking those types of relationships for themselves, but curious how anyone who has FWB or FB maintains those relationships. I know some poly people who have relationships as well as FWB. Personally, I have let my initial FWB revert to a friendship and...

I'm sorry that you are sick, but I really wish I had a "LOVE" button for the support you're feeling today.

I think OP is confused as what her rights in this relationship are because she'd seen it as a friendship while he thought they were dating. I wonder if the new girlfriend also viewed their relationship as not dating/ friends/ business partners and didn't realize what she was getting into.