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Natja - S.C. is referencing scientific evidence from psychological and sociological studies. I'm sorry that it is offensive to you, but that does not mean that the correlations do not exist outside of stereotypes.

You sound like you had quite the night. :)

SchrodingersCat - That was my initial thought too. My metamour is an amazing person in her own right. I pick up one of her books and can't put it down until it's done. I prefer to be friends with my metamours because they're people, not just the OSO of my husband or boyfriend. And I don't mean...

Just to point out, my husband (Runic Wolf) does not want to meet the people I'm involved with as a threat nor does he try to control any aspect of our dating lives. He isn't saying that he's a better judge of character than I am, but he is a good judge of character and sometimes asks different...

I enjoy having entwined relationships, not because I need to control Runic Wolf or Wendigo's other relationships, but because they (well, Runic Wolf does anyway) date really awesome people who tend to fit in swimmingly with our gaming group. I genuinely like these people and have most likely...

Asking for what you want So I've never really been that good at asking for what I want. . . don't get me wrong, I'm a very assertive person, but usually I have a hard time identifying what I want, probably because I spent my childhood pushing down "wants" because what I needed was to keep my...

I'll miss hearing from you as well. Enjoy your bike rides.

Part 2 As I was saying, I'd been a bit worried that Wendigo was avoiding us, because he tends to withdraw whenever he feels that he is being a threat to our relationship, so once I had the two of them upstairs, it took a minute or two to convince Wendigo to actually get into bed and not just...

Again, a while since I've posted here and as always, a lot has happened in our lives. I think this will be a 2 parter. About 6 weeks ago, Runic Wolf, Wendigo, and I were Skyping and Wendigo was quite drunk. He was flirting quite heavily with Runic Wolf, openly confessing his attraction and...

In our family, going to the zoo isn't a family type outing; though we do go with family. Our son has also gone with friends, grandparents, and school. But each family is different. Runic Wolf, Wendigo, and I all took both of our kids to a local gaming convention a couple of years ago. Wendigo...

I'm sorry, but I have to say this. You invited your ex to move half way across the world with you and the minute that she did, you break up with her and never speak to her again. Don't allow your children to speak her name, or have any photos of her in your home. That is some very cruel and cold...

Way to go nycindie! As for me, I had an emotional couple of days. I'm not happy in my job right now, but couldn't see a way out. I know I struggle with balancing school, work, and everything outside of that, but when I was offered the chance to use tuition credits, I asked Runic Wolf's input...

Wendigo doesn't get tested and I saw no need in making him since Pretty Lady had been his only partner for at least 15 years when we got together. I got tested in November for EVERYTHING, as they were trying to find out what was wrong with me - I ended up being allergic to wheat and corn and...

My job has me working weekends for the next few weeks, kinda sucks because I'm trying to use vacation time during the week (use it or lose it) and if I work weekends, those days off count towards my "weekend" instead of my vacation time. *sighs* On the poly front, we met a new to the area...

My favorite deck is The Celtic Tarot by Julian De Burgh. I love the imagery and the feel of it.

I'm allergic to so many things it isn't even funny. I can tolerate latex, but am allergic to lube and spermacide, so condoms have always resulted in me breaking out in hives down there, which makes sex no fun at all. That means that I have to be more choosy and careful and Runic Wolf knows that...

To answer your questions, no, Wendigo doesn't have any outside relationships besides me. (He has one very long distance online D/s relationship, but they've never met in person and there are no plans for them to meet in person.) I've thought about getting a tubal, but that would mean I'd get...

I don't find it being coy. . . we're all grown ups, we all know the risks, Runic Wolf and I have been together for 15 years, Wendigo and his wife have been together for 20 years. I am the first outside relationship he's had in 17 years, I can't get pregnant. We've been fluid bonded for 4 years...

It's an unspoken rule because, for us, because it's common sense. We are at the age of raising teenagers, not children. None of us wants anymore children and with anyone outside of the group, there is no proof that they are on birth control. So condoms it is.

I disagree with the whole "but you gotta figure out how to get her to change her mind" part of Fleur's post. If they believe in monogamy, possibly in swinging in the right circumstances, that's what they believe. Why does he need to change her mind? Why can't we just learn to accept people as...