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  1. BrigidsDaughter

    Wide Awake

    Glad to see that you two are making progress. When Wendigo and I first started dating, four years ago, I got caught up in NRE and broke Runic Wolf's trust with lies of omission because I had a hard enough time figuring out my head/ heart myself, let alone explaining it to someone else. I didn't...
  2. BrigidsDaughter

    wandering thoughts on living, loving, and learning

    Wendigo went home Tuesday night. At the time Runic Wolf commented that it looked like my dream was coming to an end. But I didn't think of it that way. I love Wendigo, but I would never dream of keeping him from his family. He loves them the way that I love Runic Wolf and our son. I could never...
  3. BrigidsDaughter

    Wide Awake

    You forget that Si had been told she wasn't welcome at their home or a member of the family when she wasn't speaking to the children. She was probably afraid of what would happen if she did with Matt being so volatile at the time. She was also probably reeling. I know there have been times where...
  4. BrigidsDaughter

    wandering thoughts on living, loving, and learning

    I am a very lucky woman, that is for sure. Last night I got to cuddle up sandwiched between my two loves watching cartoons. This morning I made them breakfast before work and they repaid me by taking me to get dinner before I had to go back to work. They front loaded my sanity for the week...
  5. BrigidsDaughter

    wandering thoughts on living, loving, and learning

    So my life is pretty chaotic right now. I managed to get 3 placements all with in the span of a month. I'm working as early as 8am until as late as midnight, sometimes on the same days. So when Runic Wolf came to me last month and mentioned that Wendigo would be staying here for a couple of days...
  6. BrigidsDaughter

    Keeping it a secret-- How long can that really work?

    When Wendigo and I first got together, our relationship was 100% in the closet, to the point where he (my best friend) was suddenly afraid to hug me in public after having done that for 2 years prior as my best friend. So funny to think about that now. Anyway, we are in the closet 90% of the...
  7. BrigidsDaughter

    Wide Awake

    Our counsellor asked him, "Did you ask her to stay or tell her that you were tired?" His retort was, "I should not have to ask their other "parent" to help out. That should be a given. You see something needs to be done. Say the dishes. Do you wait until someone asks you to do them, or do you...
  8. BrigidsDaughter

    Is NRE "a girl thing"?

    I would have to say no, it isn't just a girl thing. My boyfriend had some serious NRE with me as well. He would touch me every chance he got (when no one was looking ofcourse since we were in the closet at the time) and actually asked if he was still allowed to hug me after we started dating. He...
  9. BrigidsDaughter

    BDSM discussion

    Wendigo is involved in an LDR D/s relationship. They talk primarily over Skype and have known each other through his online RP Group. They became more involved outside of the group last year and it has moved to the point where he collared her last month. The likelihood of them meeting in person...
  10. BrigidsDaughter

    Wide Awake

    And what if your daughter wants to see Si? What is Matt going to do then? When will she start resenting her father for keeping her from Si? When I was 7 my grandmother cut my paternal granmother, great grandmother, and great aunt out of my life for no reason (She admitted to that on her death...
  11. BrigidsDaughter

    Wide Awake

    Be honest with your daughter. Explain that her dad and Si are mad at each other and while they both love her, they don't want to be around each other. I've been in similar shoes to Matt in that while I was working and going to school to support us and get us further ahead, Runic Wolf's first...
  12. BrigidsDaughter

    In NRE but can't see my partner

    I can commiserate. Wendigo and I have been together almost 4 years. These days we see each other daily, in passing, and a few times a week we carpool (well, Runic Wolf or I drive us home and Wendigo naps), but we only get couple time every other week and even that is a half hour to an hour of...
  13. BrigidsDaughter

    Vetoed relationship but can't get over secondary

    I'd say that your wife was/is the manipulative one. She had an affair, which opened you guys up to poly, but wasn't really okay sharing you, so she had to find some way to convince you to leave your GF. She threatened divorce, and you, who obviously love her, gave up your GF to save your...
  14. BrigidsDaughter

    Your most recent OKC messages. post em here!

    My response would have been, I've never had any complaints. . . maybe you're doing it wrong. . . .besides, wearing a condom means he never even has to touch another guys cum. *shrugs* I never get any messages on OK Cupid anymore.
  15. BrigidsDaughter

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Feeling kind of lonely and detached the last couple of days due to my work schedule. I'm such a quality time and touch oriented person that working 10-12 hour days and getting home after the kiddo is in bed just sucks. I miss my routine, riding home in the evening with Wendigo and Runic Wolf...
  16. BrigidsDaughter

    Is it possible to change user name

    No, it is not possible, but if it has been less than 24 hours, I believe you can edit posts that you've made. You can create a new account with a new user name, but the old one will still exist.
  17. BrigidsDaughter

    Testing... 1,2,3... testing... (STIs)

    I wish that were true. My first abnormal pap smear showed pre-cancerous lesions, which lead to my cervix being frozen and the lesions being removed. Thankfully it never progressed further than that, but I had been getting regular pap smears and it only took the time between them for it to go...
  18. BrigidsDaughter

    Testing... 1,2,3... testing... (STIs)

    Double wrapping a condom actually has a greater chance of it breaking due to friction. When I interned at the Family Planning Clinic, we were told to let people know that there is actually a greater chance of pregnancy from a broken condom if you double wrap. FYI.
  19. BrigidsDaughter

    Your most recent OKC messages. post em here!

    My most recent one: "Lovely pics :) I see you are poly but do have a play partner currently.....? I'd love to get to know you, and wonder about the possibilities in the future.... Let me know your thoughts :o)" When I didn't respond right away, he sent me another one of those odd smiley faces.
  20. BrigidsDaughter

    wandering thoughts on living, loving, and learning

    So tonight Runic Wolf is on his first date in almost a year, not counting his FWB. Though that relationship is pretty much over, due to her behavior. Wendigo and I talked over Skype, our fingers crossed for him to have a good time and for them to continue to hit it off. They met last night when...
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