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  1. BrigidsDaughter

    A weird eating disorder, please help!

    I would say he needs professional if not psychological help. I don't think there is anything you can do other than support him and encourage him to get help. It sounds like it is in his head, not his body and he never learned how to know when he was full because all of his meals were scheduled...
  2. BrigidsDaughter

    Poly Isn't For Me/Tired of Sharing My Wife

    It looks like he has said this to Jayne, but not to Jess. Perhaps if you were clear about the amount of time you needed for Jess not to be over, it would help her honor your boundary.
  3. BrigidsDaughter

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Been worried about Runic Wolf the last few days. He's been abnormally angry for no real reason that he can identify. Sometimes the hardest thing for me is sitting back, knowing I can't really do anything to help, when all I want to do is wave a magic wand and make it all better.
  4. BrigidsDaughter

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    That's awesome news Anne. As for me, work is wicked stressful right now. Thankfully I have Runic Wolf and Wendigo to keep me sane. I also have a new corset coming in the mail this afternoon. :)
  5. BrigidsDaughter

    Girlfriend's dating problems and trans issues

    I saw this on Facebook today and thought of this thread. https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=507600955963806&set=a.313226632067907.73557.313206908736546&type=1
  6. BrigidsDaughter

    Baking with "found" food

    that cake or muffins sounds delicious. May have to try it w/ a non wheat flour.
  7. BrigidsDaughter

    Ex Troubles, Now Troubles

    You can also ask your friends to change the privacy settings of posts you make on their account to not be visible to the public, not show up on their feed, etc. Change our own fb privacy settings to only friends, not friends of friends, etc. Make sure she is blocked too. Then she won't be able...
  8. BrigidsDaughter

    Baking with "found" food

    Wish I could help, but I just found out I'm allergic to wheat. I'm trying to learn to bake and cook w/ every other type of flour on the face of the planet. Good luck!
  9. BrigidsDaughter

    BDSM discussion

    Thanks, RP, that's what I was trying to say, but my brain is muddled today. For us, BDSM is an add-on to poly because the relationships existed before kink was added to them. For others it may happen differently. For yet others it may not happen at all, and that is okay too. I respect that...
  10. BrigidsDaughter

    BDSM discussion

    http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1824&highlight=BDSM&page=53 That is the main BDSM thread. TBH, I think the touchiness, in part, comes from local communities that blend poly meetups with BDSM munches. It makes people who are poly but vanilla feel unwelcomed and uncomfortable...
  11. BrigidsDaughter

    BDSM discussion

    I had a very fun Valentine's Day night. Spent 2 hours tied up with my favorite color rope. I love you Runic Wolf. <3 :D
  12. BrigidsDaughter

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    If anyone deserves a new romance, it's you babe.
  13. BrigidsDaughter

    Disabilities

    Nody, disability studies are taught in many universities. Today I took a course on Autism, which counts towards 3 credits for the New York State special education credential. Next week I am taking a course in Managing Challenging Behaviors, again related to various developmental disabilities. As...
  14. BrigidsDaughter

    BDSM discussion

    Yeah, saying my stepdad wasn't the nicest person would be an understatement. Oddly enough, a couple of years after he and my mom separated and divorced, he met a woman, got involved with a church, and his personality did a 180. He's a totally different person now, and while he doesn't like us to...
  15. BrigidsDaughter

    BDSM discussion

    And those are the reasons that I can't be 24/7. I just can't let someone have *that* much control over me. I worked too hard to escape from that type of life; from a childhood where I got grounded from church because I enjoyed it and he didn't want me to enjoy it; where we were supposed to live...
  16. BrigidsDaughter

    BDSM discussion

    I agree that it is a lifestyle, but I don't live with Wendigo. There are elements of it all in our day-to-day interactions, but I guess for me 24/7 speaks of letting someone else do the talking for you, sitting at their feet, being collared, etc. Definitely stuff I can't and shouldn't do with a...
  17. BrigidsDaughter

    BDSM discussion

    I guess that would depend on the definition of discipline. I am very very much a masochist, so pretty much any from of pain is a reward, not a punishment. It plays out very differently with Runic Wolf (hubby) than it does with Wendigo (bf). With Runic Wolf it's very much S&M with less D/s...
  18. BrigidsDaughter

    BDSM discussion

    Honestly, I don't get this "But since I'm a switch, they will need to submit to me as well." Personally, I'm a masochist and switch. I have two great guys who are able to satisfy my needs for pain and domination, but I would never expect them to be submissive to me. They just aren't submissive...
  19. BrigidsDaughter

    Need help with son hitting puberty

    Yes, someone is allowed to say that they are lucky they are straight, acknowledging that it must be difficult to be gay, and they are glad that they are not. Everyone is entitled to their personal opinion. It doesn't make it automatically right, wrong, or discriminatory.
  20. BrigidsDaughter

    Need help with son hitting puberty

    I think you are combining SchrodingersCat and Saintvlas22 into one person, when they are not. While I agree that parents should protect their children, I was your son's age when I had my first non-intercourse sexual experiences with my babysitter's son, who was a year younger than me. Nothing...
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