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question for poly old timers I am, of course, a newbie to all this, but I was wondering (from things I have read on here) if there was a tendency on the part of people who felt themselves to be naturally poly, to progress into ever more complex relationships just for the sake of it. For...

Bearing in mind I am only 10 weeks in, and of course, am still mono, there are moments when I grieve for what I have lost (or think I have). The fact that my wife needed someone else after 20 years meant that I had failed as a husband. For whatever reason, I was not enough. Those are powerful...

Hi!! :D Better late than never

Hey KatTails, I just read all your blog and wanted to tell you publicly that I think you rock. :D

:( No ice...I have had to squeeze it into a steel toecap boot for work which is where I am now..hurting a lot now.

I'd say it was essential to get to know and talk to his other interests as much or as little as you feel comfortable with. Openness is what it is all about. I will leave it to others to answer about jealousy. I am not jealous by nature and luckily OHb and I have never been jealous of each other...

I made the mistake about a month ago of telling a friend because he knew something was up. After telling me I was insane and should "divorce the bitch" he then avoided me for 3 weeks. He has only just started talking to me again but we don't mention my marriage. My wife has told one person this...

Well that's it I have gotten my first injury as a result of being on this forum. :( I was on here earlier on when I should have been getting ready for work. When I realised the time was getting on I jumped up and ran out the room but the door rebounded and caught my foot. I think I have broken...

Hmm that's interesting. Because him finding out his marriage was a no-go you might think that would clear the way for you and him. But I guess he really wants to be in a mono relationship more than anything else.

Yes I did read the whole thread though foxflame! ;) Glad it seems to have worked out in the end.

:eek: This is totally unacceptable. I can't believe he went to meet a new woman without having a shower :D

Hi Vinccenzo, I liked your post. Compared to mine I think that shows up the difference between a mono talking and a poly.

Some people are just wired mono. I feel like I am one. I have no interest in meeting or getting to know another woman. I guess you will not know about that until you try. About your boyfriend, the long distance thing is a killer, I would say. If you are happy to talk about it theoretically...

I haven't wrote much about my story yet...dunno why just not ready. But I wanted to post tonight to say that this week during my 4 days we had a sort of breakthrough. The last issue that I had that was stopping me being happy got resolved. After 9 weeks of all of us working real hard at this it...

Thanks morning glory. Yes my wife is trying very hard with both of us. I have only recently seen how special she is and how big her love is.

If she is determined to be with this new person, then sharing her is the best you are going to get....my fault I didn't explain myself clearly....you don't have to share the other person.... for instance in my case my relationship is with my wife and is as normal as we can make it during my 4...

Lover2all, this thread is painful to me because I see myself 2 months ago. But I had 20 years and six kids of history between us to help anchor us. My wife back then used to come out with distressing stuff too. It was like her head was just full of the other guy. I felt like I was on a knife...

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I liked your post too. Think it was the "Beginning and end" thing. Welcome and please post again. We don't bite. :D

You sound an interesting person Bella!! Welcome. Look forward to hearing what you have to say about stuff.