Search results

So yesterday my gf broke up with me. I decided to take the advice off this site (read it somewhere) and break contact for a little over a month. I sort of explained it to her and said it was the only way for me to get over her with any hope of becoming friends at the end. That friendship is...

It's perfectly natural to be jealous. It's what you do next that separates us. I find that every time my wife does something new, i go through a pattern. I freak out, get jealous, analyze, doubt, talk to my wife, understand the root of the problem, and usually ask her to take it slow for a...

Btw....you don't live in Edmonton do you? Just making sure you aren't JJ my gf.. :D :eek:

Canthiswork......yes it can, or atleast i think it can. I'm the husband in the same/similar situation. Originally my wife and I had made it all about a primary/secondary relationship and we retained some veto power over the other. We've now let go of that definition realising that use of it...

I feel for you and him. It's too bad it has come down this road. Obviously you both care for each other and have a lot of respect for each other. Friends without benefits i suppose is where it is at like you said. For now meet others on their own turf physically and ask if non-physical...

i think the green eyed monster is alive and well with him but i give him credit for even trying the relationship. This is his way of dealing with it. So be it for now. MOHAGANY, they have only been dating a short while...around 2 months. He's falling for her fast though.

Sounds normal at the start to have ups and downs. I think how you handle the ups/downs and forge through them is the key. Expect it to be hell, but you'll get over it once you talk throu the issues. Every subsequent time gets easier if you ask me. I think that if the significant other makes...

Wow...that's a lot of issues for a simple question. I would suggest you have a relationship to fix first before worrying where you end up with a lover. As far as the actual question, For myself we ended up buying a condo in a nearby city for a variety of reasons, one was to make it our little...

Hi, i'm new to the forum and just thought i'd discuss my relationships as a tune up from the more experienced poly people. I am male, married to E for 8 years. Mid thirties couple. Late last year my wife and i decided we would like to try poly (many discussions, much openness and love) and...