Search results

  1. I

    Hello there

    I fit that description 2 out of 3. Can I date your wife too? 😛 Welcome :D
  2. I

    Irony Is Dead

    What were the anonymous questions?
  3. I

    Cliche achievement unlocked

    What happens next? Do you plan on pursuing the Crush?
  4. I

    Australian woman wanting to know other poly people

    I understand where your husband is coming from and agree that you won't know until you actually go out and do it. It sounds like he's given you 'permission' to explore poly? I don't get the impression you are malicious or trying to get out of your relationship with your husband. But it seems...
  5. I

    Does compromise cause resentment?

    @Anxiousmono In my personal experience, compromise did cause resentment. I was involved with a married poly woman. Our relationship eventually ended on not the best of terms. The Wife and Husband had rules set up: 1) The Wife couldn't have overnight sleepovers with me. 2) The Wife didn't...
  6. I

    Female-led relationships

    In my past relationship, I was involved with a married poly woman. In her marriage, she was clearly in control. The husband was submissive. He went along with whatever she wanted, including having a sexual relationship with me. Ultimately he had a lot of resentments and didn't like his position...
  7. I

    Should they stay or should they go now

    When I was involved with a married poly woman, one of her and the Husband's rules was no sleepovers at all. This is something I accepted, but over time grew to dislike. The only time she would stay over was if he was out of town. But even then I don't think she brought it up to him. She would...
  8. I

    Monogomus with a poly partner??

    I recently was in a relationship with a married woman who was poly. It ended unfortunately. She approached me about starting a relationship with her. Her Husband was 'okay' with it. I wrestled with it for awhile. And eventually I went through with it. I guess I would never know how it would go...
  9. I

    Poly because of boredom

    I was in a relationship with a married woman who was poly. When I started seeing the Wife, my friendship with the Husband become non-existent. I've had talks with the Wife who said her sex life with her Husband became boring and eventually they stopped having sex. I suppose that's where I came...
  10. I

    Transitioning a relationship to Poly

    @Joa1234 Just wondering how this relationship turned out? It's now 2022. Are you still in this relationship? Were you able to set aside your jealousy issues?
  11. I

    Sex Toy recommendation

    Looking to purchase a double-ended dildo for two women. Any recommendations or experiences you would care to share is appreciated.
  12. I

    Moving Forward, Looking Back

    Hi. Out of curiosity, have you seen other therapists since? Has anyone else brought up the topic of sex addiction with you? I'm considering booking an appointment with a counselor and wonder if they'll bring up sex addiction with me.
  13. I

    A Bittersweet Ending

    Hi Feileks, I recently ended a relationship with a married who was in a poly relationship. The wife, husband and I had been friends for a long time. But it was when I started a relationship with the wife that my friendship with the husband started to go bad. Simply, it came down to lack of...
  14. I

    Bun's introduction

    Hi Bun, Welcome. I'm new to this forum as well. I also don't have people in my circle that I can talk about poly with. So I'm glad I found a place I can. Hope we talk soon :)
  15. I

    My bizarre relationship, a novel

    Hi, I started reading your blog and really enjoying it. My ex-partner and I explored kink while we were together and it was a very 'interesting' journey. Since we ended our relationship I've been really missing the kink side. Looking forward to reading more :)
  16. I

    Relationship recently ended

    @TXretired Catching up on messages this new year. Thanks for the welcome. Looking forward to finding answers :)
  17. I

    Very jealous partner (help!)

    I was in a relationship with a married woman. Her husband had major jealously issues and did not approve of me. I wrestled with this because he was a friend and I had guilt for being a source of his jealousy. As time went on I came to the realization that I wasn't to blame. It was something...
  18. I

    Brand new to all of this

    Welcome MrKnoll! I recently was in a relationship that ended as well. I was with a married woman for almost 2 years. But her husband and I really were not on speaking terms by the end of it. Hope you have better luck with your next encounter.
  19. I

    Still new and quite insecure, but trying! Hello

    Hi Rail, I'm new to Poly as well. I'm still learning and some of those lessons are hard! I think I understand the term Golden Retriever. I was involved with a woman who's husband fits your description. He did play a lot of video games. Maybe out of entertainment. Or maybe to escape. He pretty...
  20. I

    Should I have...?

    It certainly seemed that way. He felt less intimidated by women. Also, I suspected that he never pursued other women. Probably because he's kind of reserved and shy. I asked the wife if he saw other women. She said she didn't know for sure, but also suspected he never did. She told me she...
Back
Top